how do spot a bully? and will we accept this in a president?

i found this site and my first thought was wow that is obama. how did we get a president like this?

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/bully.htm

if you do not read the site please do not answer with slurs.

bully's are everywhere and we have been allowing this to happen for too long. the news media has bullied sarah palin and though i am not a supporter i feel that she needs defended. they are using the same tactics on bachmann and again i do not support her as president but still feel she should not be treated in this way.

our president bullied his way into office by backdoor racist comments and now he is using backdoor tactics again. are we going to allow this?