What other force beside God?

Troll & a troll. Blaming Catholics yes, so you think all Catholics are like that then?? Attacking us again!!

If I were you, here's what I would do.

1. Try to narrow down exactly what you feel is making you ugly. Your nose? Your teeth? Your chin? Etc.

2. Leave the whole god-thing out of this. Obviously, it's not getting any where. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs, but if a god is not answering your prayers, forget it. Don't fall for the "God is testing you," or, "God always has a purpose for everything." Neither of those ideas are practical in this day and age.

3. Please don't be offended by this, but you really should see a psychotherapist to gain some insight into yourself. I had a couple years of it and my self-esteem soared as a result. Talk with you therapist about plastic surgery when you start to feel better about yourself.

4. If plastic surgery is indicated, find a plastic surgeon who is board certified, has a good reputation, and who thinks he or she can actually help you. (A good way to find out about other doctors is to ask your family doctor if he or she would send their spouse or children to a particular surgeon. Of course they will think of the best one.)

5. Do all of these things at the same time, if you can. I cannot stress the importance of therapy. NOT to tell you "you're beautiful already, blah, blah, blah...", but to work with you in discovering new ways to think about yourself and to make the right decisions for the future. A good "shrink" will lead you to these conclusions, not demand that you go in a particular direction.

Finally, do what you think is best for YOU. The thinking of many "believers" is sometimes clouded by their religious indoctrination. Remember that there have been MANY wars fought in the name of religion and are usually totally against the foundations of those religions. In other words, what good is it?

You have always heard of a God but apparently you have not accepted him

as your own. God is the force you need but you must invite him into your life

first then he will hear you.

If you have a bible, turn to Romans 10:9,10 and read those verses out loud

and believe what they say, for they are the way to get Gods' attention.

He is the force that can change you from the inside out. People will be able

to see you in a different way; not just physically but as a whole person.

Knowing God for myself, He could even change your physical appearance

also.

Yes there is another force out there also; it is the evil force that is influencing

others to mistreat you. God is able to overcome that power over them if you

will put your trust in him, after you have accepted Jesus as your Savior.

Ugly is not your problem! Ugly doesn't cause anyone abuse! Ugly is not a force!

Your attitude on the other hand is a force that can make things happen! Change your attitude and change your life! Right now you are defining who you are by the way you look physically. What defines us is who we are in character and character is shaped almost entirely by our attitude!

Give your attitude a make over!!! It truly is your only ugliness!

Do you have a picture of yourself so we could all judge as well. You seem to think you are so ugly but that is your opinion, maybe someone out here may think differently. Unless you are just seriously butt ugly don't give up so early.

Yes. There is a force that helps us. Its called life and you do the judging yourself. Ugly is your opinion based on others. Nothing good comes out of it you say. Of course it did. You " helped" others. Thats good.

You are right. You do not call yourself ugly. Others do. They call me that too. I think how sad they are. I learn nothing about myself. I leaern only about them.

Looks are superficial, and blaming G*D for the actions of humans is pointless and unfair. G*D will not change the actions of humans, only the individual themselves can change their behavior if they wish.

In short they bullied you and you feel justified in bullying G*D for their actions. Yet you see this as better behavior than those who bullied you ?

If you have money, get plastic surgery.

But looks are just something to stand on the sidelines.

God is the only force.

Looks are ephemeral and fade soon enough. But if it bothers you a lot you can always change how you look. You say you have the money.

You just have a body image disorder. You need to get self esteem.

Humans are mean, vile and tribe creatures.

At the same time, they can be altruistic, and kind and loving.

Unfortunately I think the previous outnumber the latter.

No god, no fate, no karma, no 'celestial' judges.

Cause and effect.

--not superstitious