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my Girlfriend Emily PAYNE?
My Girlfriend Name Is Emily http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=qnv80m&s%E2%80%A6 ( Pictured) who is a Teenager who's 16..... and i have been With her a Long time........... Since i been with her she always hasn't really treated me as a boyfriend.... she gives me this funny look where she has a scrunched up face when she's mad but she gives a curious look of it too.... everytime i am with her she does it and when she don't she seems Unbothered. i felt she never treated me the same as everyone else always thought i was boring or not good enough for her to meet certain requirements.. i always would buy her anything and acknowledge her but the more so the more it seems she takes advantage of me. couple of weeks ago she confessed that she thought i was a loser who doesn't even answer her when she speaks..... that is untrue... she never has given me her phone number and i am always chasing after her like a lapdog. i feel rejected, i wouldn't class myself as a stalker more of unrequited love. i was totally in love with her .... anyway she also said couple of weeks ago she preferred guys with blonde hair and pale skin..... she always trys to hide the fact she's Bisexual.. anyway one of my friends who know her told me she is cheating on me with a 54 yr old man and i know they wouldn't say this if it wasn't true there said either 54 64 or 74 but i am guessing 54. weird thing is my stepdad is 54 and it gets me thinking you know.... i can't ask him as he won't admit and it is ultra hard to to get evidence. i don't even know myself yet all i know is positive she is with a 54 yr old man.she told me once age doesn't matter but i didn't know she ment like this i thought she mean't distance between age between young people like say 21 and 16 for instance not 54 and 16. i have always told her please tell me if you have cheated or if you want rid of me but instead she lets me on.... she always avoids me too and i always tell her that and she is like SO. i feel as if i died she would just say he is dead would be a little shocked uncaring and that's it.. what do i do ??
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- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
Break up with her!
She doesn't appreciate the love and attention you give her, or the way you feel about her. She doesn't care that YOU care and therefore it is only going to become worse from here. You need to get out of it as soon as possible because the longer you wait the more it is going to hurt. You deserve someone who is going to treat you right.
As for the old man thing, it could be a lie, it could be true. Either way that's a little icky, and just another reason to not be with her. It probably isn't your stepdad, unless your stepdad is kind of gross and you think he would do something like that. But even if she didn't, it sounds like she is going to keep acting like this no matter what.
If you still want to stay with her(not recommended) Sit down with her and have a long talk, ask her questions you never dared to ask, get everything out of the table. It could help. A relationship is built on trust.
Love,
Sasha
- SOORLSNLv 610 years ago
You should never post someones photo and full name online. Do you have her permission to do so? If not, delete this. She may not want strangers knowing her business.
You do not know for "positive" she is with a 54 year old man. You heard rumors.
She doesn't sound like the right girl friend for you. She has made that clear by stating her preferences. She avoids you. She calls you a loser. She isn't being up front, but she is making it clear. This isn't a girl friend!
You should try to talk to her, not about staying together, but about parting. As for the 54, 64 or 74 year old thing, let it go. How would they know the exact age of someone she was supposed to be cheating with? 54, 64, or 74? Even you don't know what they said. You could mention having heard she is seeing an older man. But, why bother. She is treating you poorly. You can do better, and when you are older you will see you weren't totally in love with her.