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2 Week Wait and feeling lowsy!?
This is our 3rd month TTC after miscarriage and I am starting to feel relly lowsy about it all. When I got my period last month and the month before I felt crappy and upset, but once I was able to have sex around fertile times, I felt like I was doing something that would increase my odds of becoming pregnant. And now during the 2 week wait (still a week before I can test) I feel like the result is out of my hands. It just sucks knowing that no matter how many times I have sex now, it won't change anything, and it's completely out of my hands. I know that I had sex every other day from when my period ended up until I was past my fertile days, and now it's out of my hands and up to my body to do what I want it to do. Does anyone get depressed during the 2 week wait? Why can't they make a pregnancy test that detects it earlier? Lol I don't even know if it's possible, but wouldn't it be nice. Even if it was down to a 1 week wait? 2 weeks feels like an eternity and I feel like I've been waiting a month to test. Lol when I've only been waiting a week. And to top it off, I am starting to feel random symptoms, but I am trying not to read into them too much, because I really hate getting my hopes up. Ugh......so sucky!
I know exactly how you feel Abi. I too had a recent miscarriage, and I was lucky enough to get my period a month after the miscarriage (I was really early, like 5 weeks) and when my period came it was a mixture of sadness because I was no longer pregnant, and happiness because I could start trying again. But I didn't get pregnant right away like I did with that pregnancy, and that hurt so much. And as I was trying again, a few girls that are 3 years younger than me got pregnant. I had to deal with their excitement, and joy, when I felt like it should have been me. Girls that are so young are getting pregnant everyday and they act like it is the greatest thing for them, and women who are married and would love to have a child are the ones that have trouble conceiving. I really hope that all of us can pull of the BFP this month. We deserve it! Good luck to you and to the other poster! May we all be able to give birth the happy healthy babies by this time next year!
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- Abi UKLv 410 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm in the 2ww club too and know exactly how you're feeling hun. I had a miscarriage in July and felt like I'd be waiting a lifetime for my period to come back, then when it did 6 weeks later I started to feel better. Then it started to dawn on me that I will now have to ttc again and may not be so lucky to get pregnant the first time like I did before.
I'm now on cycle 2 and already starting to think about adoption! What I hate the most is that with all of the advances in modern science and medicine there is so much about pregnancy we still don't know or cannot control. We can give people new faces, stitch limbs back on and even clone organisms! But the one thing we cannot do is control when I woman gets pregnant. I actually think this is possible, but they've ruled this out for fear of population explosion. Yet there are women out there who are not ready to be mothers and seem to be able to conceive at the drop of a hat.
Life isn't fair. At least when we do eventually get pregnant and deliver our babies alive, we will appreciate them more than anything in the world. Sorry for my rant! Sending you loads of positive energy x
- kaupLv 44 years ago
i be attentive to, the waiting game is painful. i'm on cycle day a million, commencing returned after 3 months wait to recoup from my 4th miscarriage in July . This cycle i'm doing an exceedingly very very medicated cycle, blood thinners, steroids, femara, ovidrel, progesterone suppositories, and cycle monitoring (blood tests and ultrasounds each and on a daily basis). i'm attempting to be useful, and hoping that it will artwork this cycle so I wont could desire to be on drugs too long. with a bit of luck the wait isn't too long for you. final three hundred and sixty 5 days i began out knitting throughout the time of my 2 week wait. nicely it have been given slightly intense, and anybody I knew have been given knitted products. regrettably spring got here however and that i began out getting stranger seems whilst freely giving my knitted products. I did make some toddler blankets yet that even have been given slightly too intense. So besides the reality that knitting isn't the superb thank you to bypass, I do advise making plans some issues to maintain your recommendations off the wait. no rely if that is making a reservation at your widespread eating place, or making plans a weekend away. solid success to us the two!
- 10 years ago
I know exactly what you mean. It would be nice if someone would just hold up a sign the second it happens that says "You've implanted" I'm playing the waiting game too. Best of luck to you.
