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Is it legal for a boss to promote his girlfriend?

A friend of mine has worked for her company a long time and a year or so ago recommended another friend of hers for a job with the company. After a few months it became clear to everyone that her boss was dating her friend. They ended up moving in together and openly became a couple.

The assistant manager left the company recently and my friend's boss told her she would be taking his place. She was sent on training courses and the company paid for a couple of certifications she needed. Suddenly my friend got a warning for something she didn't do and she was told that her promotion was in question. The boss's girlfriend was given a new post on the same level as my friend and they were told that they would take on the assistant manager's duties between them. My friend trained the girlfriend to do the job and ended up doing most of the work while the girlfriend spent time with the boss.

Yesterday my friend found out that the boss's girlfriend has been promoted to assistant manager. She is totally distraught and doesn't want to go back to work. She feels betrayed by her friend and the boss.

Is it legal for the boss to promote his girlfriend when the promotion had been promised to my friend and she had been given all the training for it?

For information, when my friend was given her warning I told her at the time that it had not been carried out properly. Her boss did not tell her what the meeting was about and did not tell her she was entitled to have someone with her. She wasn't given a chance to explain what had happened (someone had logged into her PC as her, downloaded porn, taken a picture of it on her screen and sent it to the boss - my friend didn't know anything about it until the boss showed her the picture) and her warning was not given to her in writing. I told her she should have put in a complaint at the time.

She was never given a written contract and worked a lot of unpaid overtime. She even had holidays cancelled more than once meaning she lost money.

It's only a small company so they don't have an HR department or anything. The boss is completely in control. I think this is completely unfair and she should be getting legal advice but is it worth it? Has she actually been treated illegally?

Update:

@Ed - What are you even talking about?

Update 2:

Fair point, Scott & KL, the boss is the boss. I'm just so angry about it. She was bawling her eyes out yesterday and it made me so cross. I'm going to try to convince her to find another job because I really don't think she should stay in such a toxic environment. I agree there's obviously someone out to get her. And when she's moved on the boss might actually realise that he's stuck with a brainless Barbie-doll as an assistant manager.

Update 3:

Fair point, Scott & KL, the boss is the boss. I'm just so angry about it. She was bawling her eyes out yesterday and it made me so cross. I'm going to try to convince her to find another job because I really don't think she should stay in such a toxic environment. I agree there's obviously someone out to get her. And when she's moved on the boss might actually realise that he's stuck with a brainless Barbie-doll as an assistant manager.

Update 4:

Fair point, Scott & KL, the boss is the boss. I'm just so angry about it. She was bawling her eyes out yesterday and it made me so cross. I'm going to try to convince her to find another job because I really don't think she should stay in such a toxic environment. I agree there's obviously someone out to get her. And when she's moved on the boss might actually realise that he's stuck with a brainless Barbie-doll as an assistant manager.

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    The company belongs to the boss, right? The boss is the boss even if he lets his smaller head do the thinking for his bigger head once in a while.

    Tell your friend to watch her back as she has enemies within the work place. Who ever put the porn on her computer and gave a pic to the boss is more than just a back-stabber. Tell her to use the password protection on her computer every time she leaves the computer or her job is probably gone next time it happens. Start looking around for the enemy; who had time, access, and motivation to do such a thing. put a web camera on the computer screen and use a little program to record motion!!!

    Don't piss-off the boss about his new girlfriend or you might become unemployed for mis-conduct ie no unemployment benefits.

    Source(s): I am an Erooled Agent and work in a tax office.
  • Elaine
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Nope, you have NO lawsuit. If you live in the United States, don't have an union or a contract then you are employed at-will. This means you can be fired at any time for any reason including no reason. Nothing here indicated discrimination and likely what you are reading about in your employee handbook is what you want to see, instead of what it actually says. If it is against company policy for you to get fired, then you can contact your boss' boss and you can also file for unemployment. Ultimately you are employed at-will and will lose any lawsuit.

  • Tavy
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    A Boss in the Uk can promote anyone they like whenever they like. There are no UK laws thank goodness which tell employers how to do this. We employers have enough form filling in to do without the government interfering how we run our businesses, - and it is our business not the employees.

    UK

  • Ed Fox
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Is it legal for you to be telling your boss - the person who pays your salary - exactly whom he should or should not be promoting? No. I think they call that harassment - and if you persist in parading your opinions around the workplace, you could well find yourself terminated

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    GAWD, everybody feels entitled these days.

  • Judy
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Unfortunately, isn't illegal.

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