How to deal wifd a braek up?

First of all, I want you to know that you aren't the only person going thru this. Everyone has, including your PARENTS! Yes, it can be hard to belive, but they've been heartbroken one way or another too! But don't think your the only one heartbroken, she is too, deep down inside. If anything, they could be feeling more of the bad person, because they see YOU broken hearted and they feel guilt. But it's normal, relationships end with either one or the other person hurt. And i'm really sorry to say that.

How to get over her; first, you gotta do what you gotta do. If you wanna cry yourself to sleep, yet, everyones telling you not to, DO IT ANYWAY. Why? Cause it's benefitting YOU, and it's making YOU feel better, and your doing what's best for yourself! I had that problem! The only way I could let it out was by crying; friends told me to be strong, but it's hard to be strong when someone you love, kinda just "leaves you out in the rain", standing there alone, y'know?! Just do whats best for you. If you wanna write a song, poem. Or even better, a letter. Write down all you wanna say to her, then burn it.

Unfortunately, the hardest part of all, is accepting the fact that love takes time to heal. Everyone wants it to be over in a heartbeat, I wish it could be too! If it was true love, possibly your first, it may take longer, because that's the only person you've been with,and it was your first impression of love, and you may think "yeah, this is what love it", so it will totally feel different when it comes to the next person.That's why, the first person you fall in love with, will always leave a footprint on your heart. You may always have that deep down gut feeling for them, even though you've accepted the fact that it wasn't going to work out. Now, if it wasn't true love, things would be the opposite, it would take time to heal, but you would heal fast, for my friend, it was two weeks. But then she realized, and I want you to realize this too, WE'RE YOUNG. WE DON'T NEED LOVE RIGHT NOW. why? Because we're still trying to figure out who WE really are!!! I wish the best of luck to you!

I'm gonna attach some links, here, one is of this girl Weylie, who gives amazing relationship advice, then my friend Stephanie, who is also amazing at giving advice on relationships!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CP5zPJLsgAQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jb6dx27SI8Q&feature...

I split up with my boyfriend two weeks ago, and i still love him so i'm in the same situation:/ i just stop thinking about him and try to delete him from my life...it's working pretty well right now<3

People will tell you all kinds of things, but really the only thing that will help is time. I went through the same thing, and though it sucks you just have to wait it out.

If she's cheating on you then you need to move on from her. You need to tell yourself that you deserve better. You can pine after her forever but it won't change what she did. Try to keep yourself busy, these feelings will hurt for a while but eventually you'll move past it.

Just remember that you deserve someone who treats you properly.

omg my bf just broke up with and it was over another girl and i heard he had sex with her and he seems to forgot about me but i still have feelings for and since we broke up,i have been acting more goth and now he thinks i look bad and says different things about me.sooo i cant really answer that question when i cant solve my own problems