I am married but feel alone after my son was born?

So sorry to hear you been through so much in such a short period time. Please don't lose hope and please don't feel it's all due to your son because it has happened after his birth. That little guy can't even speak yet and depends on you the most. If things are souring between you and your husband, I think it's because two adults are getting use to being a 'parent.' Yes, being a parent takes a lot. Very sorry to hear what you are going through, but please realize it's not your baby who is doing this.

Is it financially possible for you to work part time instead? If so that would alleviate some of the stress and provide more care for your child. As far as your marriage, it always gets difficult after a child comes along. The best thing to do is talk about your issues and make goals to improve your marriage, together. Make you you spend time together as a couple and ask for some help so you're not as exhausted at the end of the day and can resume a sexual relationship with your husband, the longer you wait to have sex the worse your marriage will get. Remember men find intimacy through sex so it doesn't matter what you say, he's going to feel unloved without sex.

"I have not been interested in sex so he thinks I am not attracted to him anymore. That is not even the case, I am just extremely exhausted. "

Yes it does. If you were still attracted to him then you would make him a priority and would make time for him. How ironic that you refuse to do this, refuse to acknowledge it, and then also complain that you feel alone. (To this end, if you have not resumed birth-control, then you are not serious about maintaining your martial relationship.)

It is not 'easy' when you have a baby, and harder still when you try to live the fantasy-Feministic life, but if you do not make the effort to stay connected now, it is over. Children stress a good marriage and destroy weak ones.

"What can I do to get our marriage back on track?"

You have already told us what the roadblocks are, yet you are asking us what you need to do?

You are making many classic mistakes. Your (albeit genuine) attempts at reconciliation using compliments is /another mistake/ that you are making. You are married to a man not a woman.

You see, there are times in marriage where things like this will happen. And not only once, but a couple of times. You have to TALK, TALK, TALK. I honestly can't emphasize it enough. When you talk to someone about your feelings, it's likely that the other person will share their feelings too and you guys will be able to find solutions to your problems. And not all problems have solutions to them, sometimes you just have to live with it.

Talk with him about things or go to counseling. If u need a friend to talk with I'm here. Take Care

This will help.

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see a marriage counselor, that would help.