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Did my 11 year old son have sex!?
I'm soo worried! He's been home alone 4 times a week for 5 weeks! What if they already had sex!? Please, help me! My son could have got a girl pregnant! It would ruin his life, honestly I know people will say "you're a bad parent" but I really didn't know! Should I already give him condoms? But, if I give him condoms, he'll think its ok to have sex! I don't want him having sex! I want to trust him, but I can't!! I found his girlfriend topless! And, I think if I waited maybe only 20 minutes, they would of been nude & they'd be having sex! What should I do? I'm soo worried & he has raging hormones! Please help! Should I give him condoms? Well, then he'll think it's ok to have sex, but if I don't, I could risk him doing it without protection! Please! I'm crying, I really want my son tohave a normal life! Please help me! My 11 year old always seemed a little over-developed, he started dating at 11. Him and his girlfriend are kissing, a lot. Ive spoke to several parents and teachers wondering what to do, but they have no answers! He and his girlfriend have been left home alone, I thought 11 year olds had no raging hormones. Do they? I thought boys started getting these uncontrollable hormones at age 13. I'm afraid they have done something while they were home alone. I've caught his girlfriend with her shirt off before! This seems very odd to me. She had a bra on, but I don't want my child to be exposed to this. Do you think he did something? I never gave him condoms, because I thought, why the hell would an 11 year old need condoms! I'm confused and scared quite frankly! We leave them alone for 2 hours per day. But do you really think an 11 year old would even have the courage to ask a girl to have sex? I'm confused! Should I give him condoms? I don't know! So please help me!!
13 Answers
- elaeblueLv 710 years ago
No No condoms for a 11year old.
No girlfriends either.
Why the hell would you allow a 11 year old to date?
It sounds to me like this 11 year old just does what he wants to and you have no control over him at all.
Get a babysitter and send the girl home - no more being alone in the house for two hours every day - Who is the parent here?
- 10 years ago
I'm surprised that you allow your son to have his girlfriend over when you are not home. I would have a talk with the girl's parents and make it a rule that they are not together alone when no parents are around. You, his parents must also have a serious conversation with him about the folly and danger of sex at an early age. Spell out the consequences to him. They might only be kissing so far. You should be able to learn something from his reactions during the conversation.
- 6 years ago
As a 17 year old guy, could I ask why you would even let your 11 year old have a "girlfriend'? When I was 11, I was building planes, cars, and towers with Legos rather than being interested in girls. Even If I was back then, my mother wouldn't even allow me to have a "girlfriend" or have any girls over unless I was in her sight. An 11 year old has no clue what it means to have a girlfriend. Hell, even a majority of kids my age don't know. I'd advise you to stop leaving him home alone with kids who don't know any better than he does if you want to avoid this.
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- 5 years ago
Your fault!
First of all- He is not supposed to have a girlfriend at that age
Second- DEFINITELY wrong to leave this boy alone with a girl even if he is young, you didn't know, now u know. Nobody can get hell trusted in this generation cos there mind are just sex sex hormones hormones so NO.
NO Girlfriend
NO leaving him home alone with this girl
and IMPORTANTLY NO GIVING HIM CONDOMS! He shoudl be playing with cars not risking getting girls pregnant. You are the adult. You take control of this an hell give him a proper talk! He need to know whats right and start obeying and you have to learn how to control your child cos this is risky and bad!
- 10 years ago
Face it, your kids are going to do what they want, if theres a will theres a way. If you truly think he is having se,x educate him and offer him the condoms, if you don't feel comfortable, have someone older that he listens to talk to him.
- ?Lv 410 years ago
I though kids didn't even know what it was at that age. Calm down. You're freaking out. Chances are he isn't and why is an 11 year old dating?
- Anonymous10 years ago
Only permit them to see eachother once in a while ? Don't leave them alone , take them with you places .
- Anonymous10 years ago
Talk to the girls parents about what she's doing. They'll probably ground her for being a little slut.
