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My friend said she needed space...?

I text and chat to her every day... I just love hearing what's going on in her life and her thoughts of various things... But I was wearing her down, she felt she was obligated to talk to me...

I thought she had fun talking to me, I don't know anymore, she told me she needed space. I feel like I'm not good enough, if I was good enough, she wouldn't need space from me. :'(

What can I do? I hate not being able to talk to her, it's breaking my heart.

Update:

I'm not desperate in general, I just want to talk to her. I love her.

Update 2:

She did tell me, but I always feel guilt or unworthiness because I simply wish that I was good enough that she didn't need space from me.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    What can you do? Well you can stop texting her all the time. If you're texting her so much she feels irritated or obligated to talk to you then you really should just stop.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I have been in this situation its not easy. Kind of need to know all the variables. But give her space. At the same time let her know you are there and if she wants to ever spend time with you organize something special

  • 10 years ago

    don't over analyze anything. she most likely wants to be alone, maybe something bad happened in her life she didn't tell you and now she's like a wounded bird.

    its best not to talk that much to girls, its better to listen cause that's what they want

    you'll be fine just don't worry about it, she's a friend if she told you what was wrong, if she didn't and just ignored you then that isn't a friend

  • 10 years ago

    give her space........try not to seem desperate to talk to her........if she is considerate of you she will initiate conversation.

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