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Relationship help, please?
Here's the deal:
There's this girl in school, of whom I'm very fond (i.e., I like her), and I've recently started talking to her. I asked her out, she said yes, and I got her number and everything. So far, no abnormality, right?
Well... There is something. I would like to find a way to tell her I do intend to engage in a long-term relationship with her. And I believe I should make it pretty clear, because she may think otherwise, and everything WILL be screwed up, say, after a first kiss.
I know you'll tell me to either give up, because she won't want to start dating seriously in high school; or to forget anything like that, because I shouldn't want to be in a serious relationship so early in my life. But I do want to! What do I do about her?
To those who have answered so far, thanks a lot. I didn't indeed mean to talk to her about a relationship on our first date, I just wanted to know if there was a good moment to bring it up. Anyway, let's see who gets precious 10 points =D
3 Answers
- ?Lv 710 years agoFavorite Answer
THis is not something you want to bring up on the first date, she will run! It's kinda like talking about how you want to have kids soon on a first date-not a good idea. Give her a chance to get to know you, date her for a while-say a month and then ask her where she sees this going. Then tell her you want the two of you to be exclusive. (date only each other)
- Anonymous10 years ago
i thought most relationships were intended to last and not just some fun. but anyway, i wouldnt do it first date it could scare her away. After a month id say, talk to her about it.
- Anonymous10 years ago
talk to her about it!! Tell her how you feel...im in a serious relashionship and im a freshman in college and my man is in hs...you just have to talk to her about the situation and tell her that you are tired of the couple of week to couple of month relashionships...that your wanting a long lasting relashionship and ask her what she thinks about that.. it will all work out :)