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Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 10 years ago

Do men generally prefer sleeping with women who have had few...?

sexual partners in the past?

Or do they generally want a woman who is more experienced?

Numbers would be helpful in your answer! :)

Update:

Edit: I'm not asking for YOUR sexual numbers. I'm asking how many is considered "less experienced" and how many makes a woman "more experienced"

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    I prefer less experience.

    Women have a tendency to over analyze and over compare. The less men I'm compared to the better. Also.. the more sexual experience a woman has the more likely someone before me was better in bed or had a bigger package.

    That's why I just don't ask.

  • 10 years ago

    To me, I would prefer a woman with fewer sex partners. A modest 2 or 3 is acceptable as a "few." I wouldn't say that makes her less experienced but she isn't TOO experienced either. She's been with enough guys to know a good bit of what shes doing but not with a herd of men in thier past.

    It's basically like asking a woman who she would prefer. Sme guys might like a woman who has "been around" but to me I kind that unappealing since I haven't had many sexual partners myself and I dont wanna be with a woman who been around too much. I prefer women with moderate experience over a woman with "too much experience" anyday because too will make me worry about trusting her to be loyal as well as my health. Wear condoms!!

    less experienced: 0-1 partners.

    moderate experience: 2-4 partners

    experienced: 5-10

    whore: 20 and above

    Source(s): A man who dont go for freaks. : /
  • 10 years ago

    I don't really equate experience with the number of partners. If a woman has already had just a few partners, any more than that really isn't going to necessarily add to her skills as a lover if she was passionate. Is a woman who has had 50 partners really any better in bed than a woman who had 5? And if many of those 50 were just one-nighters, then she really didn't allow much time to gain any experience with each man.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    There are clear advantages and disadvantages to both:

    Let's take the risk of STD's out of the equation for simplicity:

    IMO, the best lovin' involves taking turns at giving and receiving, dominating and submitting.

    A partner who has had fewer lovers is probably more likely to be a good recipient of my pleasures, but not as likely to take charge and ride the ride for all it's worth. After a few times, however, she will start to and there is a certain gratification that goes along with "breaking in" a new partner of this type, pardon the expression.

    The more experienced one is more likely to rock my planet, over and over again, but eventually even the hottest fires begin to fizzle out.

    I would say, I'd prefer a more experienced partner for a short-term fling, but a less experienced one for the long haul.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Experienced women can be more fun, but it's not like inexperienced women can't be taught new things in the bedroom.

    If she has had a lot of sexual partners I'm fine with it as long as she doesn't talk about it with me in detail.

    Edit: I think 7 is where I say she's "more experienced".

  • 10 years ago

    I can only speak for myself, as I've never bothered to ask my friends their opinion on the matter, but it makes little difference to me either way. What I look for most importantly in a playmate is the willingness to try new and exciting things and not to judge an idea before trying it unless it is a "hard no."

    For me, sex is as much a wild exploration into the land of "what would happen if...?" as it is a pleasurable bonding activity with my playmate. As I think of different things, and as my playmates hear of things or think of ideas, we like to try them for the thrill of something new and because it is enjoyable to indulge one's fantasies.

    I find one's number of other sexual partners does not increase or decrease one's imagination into "What would happen if...?" It doesn't even always indicate the level of "I've never...."

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    From a hygiene perspective alone it is a real stomach-churner to think of having sex with a person who's had many partners. I personally wouldn't do it ......

    As for experience - most women are taught by very poor and inadequate teachers; so their experience is usually pretty poor ... if not totally inadequate ... as birds of a feather flock together. So the chances are that the girl generally sleeps with the same psychological partners ... and picks up the same psychological grooming as to what is good sex and what is bad sex. As it is so rare that we have sex with people who are our psychological antitheses!

    Source(s): Psychological assessment
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    i don't know why people wouldn't ask their partner. i want to know and they always seem interested to know as well.

    with my honey, i've actually slept with 2 more people than him. i think he's the first person that's ever happened with. however, the majority of my partners haven't ever had a problem with "my number". it's certainly not excessive. most secure people aren't bothered by their partners number, unless it IS just completely excessive.

    the only people i've dated who have taken issue with it were the latin dudes. they (at least all the latin guys i've known or that friends have dated) seem to expect all women to be a virgin, even if they're in their mid-20s. i guess it's a cultural thing?

  • 4 years ago

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  • 10 years ago

    Generally they prefer women with less experience than themselves. Or none at all.

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