Father ill and I want to get married to my boyfriend before he dies.?

Just say honey we are really in love and you know how my father is doing why dont we get married before he passes it would mean so much to me.

There's really not enough detail here to give a good answer. Some of the questions relate to your relationship with your bf (how long you've known him, how old you are, whether you're both financially stable and you've talked through all the major issues like kids, career goals blah blah). The other detail relates to your dad. People can live with liver disease for decades, depending on what kind of disease you're talking about.

This second one is important because you don't want to use his illness as an excuse to rush into something BOTH of you aren't ready for. You may be...but where is he? The other risk is that you don't want your wedding to be sad or bittersweet, and your dad probably won't want that, either. What happens if you plan it around your understanding of his "timeline" and something causes him to deteriorate quickly. What then?

I'm not saying don't do it, because it could be an amazing gift to him. The part that's slightly concerning is that you can't sit down and talk to the guy you think you're ready to marry. A lot of your focus is on the wedding and your dad's illness, which is understandable. But the most important issue is the lifetime you're committing to when you walk down that aisle. So make sure you can talk to him about anything, and then sit him down and let him know your thoughts. Just speak from the heart but don't try to dictate anything. You're just trying to understand what he thinks about it all.

i'm sorry you have a terminal ailment. possibly my adventure should not be plenty help, yet possibly it is going to. i became heavily harm in a truck twist of destiny numerous years in the past, i will have lingering consequences for something of my existence yet i'm able to hold down a job and preserve something of a existence. My superb pal (or so i presumed) spent approximately 20 minutes with me the whole week I spent in the well being facility. yet another pal hung out with me every day in the well being facility, yet through fact that has distinctly much dropped out of my existence through fact that my financial situations have replaced. I even have found out that some human beings can't handle seeing a relatives member go through and could not comprehend until years later that their attitude became so incorrect. My grandmother died of cancer some years in the past while i became a baby and that i keep in mind how her decline apprehensive me. She suffered large soreness for an extremely long term and on the top, her techniques wasn't clean, and her physique smell grew to alter into undesirable through organs shutting down. She wasn't the comparable guy or woman and that apprehensive me additionally. you will not replace your loved ones, yet enable your self to enable them to bypass. optimistically you have a help device of acquaintances, or in all probability hospice. those are your loved ones now. possibly giving your loved ones far will wake them up.

If you have mentioned marriage and he has not responded to it, then no matter how you go about it you will be pushy.

If he isnt ready and your force him into it, itl likely ruin your relationship before you even get down the isle.

Tell your boyfriend that you love your father so much and that you want him to be present in your wedding. And since you said that yall have talked about marriage then why wouldnt he accept? Good luck!

Civil ceremony, small reception at a restaurant.