Having a kid with a friend. Options!?

Well Sir. I'd be in a relationship with her and be there for the baby and help out. I'm not a parent but I do see how hard it is for my brother and his girlfriend they have a newborn a few days ago. She basically takes care of the baby ad wakes up with her all through the night when my brother lives like 30 mins away and is only there through out the day sometimes. Make things easier and form a relationship and save for a apartment for you guys. Be responsible.

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Well if she's not willing to be flexible with you then that's not fair. Cities aren't "ghettos" if you learn how to be safe and live in the right area. Is it possible that you could move and meet in the middle? Buy an apartment/ condo together a little ways away from the city?

Be honest with your parents first. Tell them that you got one of your friends pregnant,and see how they react. Chances are that they'll be disappointed and mad at first, but then be happy that they're having a grandchild. Have a casual dinner with your friend and parents, and just have them get used to each other. Your parents will be proud of you for taking responsibility, I'm sure of it.

If you want her to be your girlfriend, help her see that you are going to be there for her and the baby and support her the best that you can. Let her know that you do love her not just because she's having your baby but because you think that she's a great person.

good for you that u didnt put run and hide as an option and I am assuming she doesnt want to b a single parent since u didnt put in that option either.

#2 sounds like the best option for both of u., would u live together there?

you dont have to make her ur girlfriend but dont sleep with other girls until u figure out what you are to each other.

good luck to all 3 of u

You should've been more careful. Just do what is right and the best for both of you, even if that means being apart

What a coincedence I have similar problems.

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