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Is it okay to tell a girl how you feel when she already has a boyfriend?

There's this girl at my school, we both used to hang out together, talk, and text, a lot and we were pretty close, we even held hands, it was like she was my girlfriend but it wasn't official.. We both knew that we liked each other, but 2 weeks ago we stopped talking because she said something was going on.. so I wait and during this time I'm really depressed and sad. Recently, she put a note in my locker saying that shes in a relationship now.. now I'm ******* sad but I can't let her know because I don't want her to worry..

We still talk and text a little, but its like a ******* wall is blocking everything, like I cant tell her anything now because shes in a relationship. even though her boyfriend is like half way across the country in another state, it still feels like I can't tell her anything.. Apparently her boyfriend and her used to date, but he cheated on her.. and she still goes back to him..

I still like her but I can't tell anyone because I don't wanna break up a relationship shes in... I can't tell anyone, but if I could, she's the only one I would tell, and I would tell her how I feel about her...

I just don't know if this is the right thing to do.. I'm willing to take the risk of telling her, but what if I get rejected? we wont be friends anymore right after that? I don't know anymore.. please help..

Update:

She doesn't know that I still like her.

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  • 10 years ago
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    i was wondering the same thing a few months ago.

    i was at a party with this chick i had known for years and she was already in a relationship, but we hit it off anyway and got along really well and then started texting and stuff. she knew that i liked her and i told her this too. and she said that she liked me and asked me some really awkward questions. like if i broke up with "this guy" would you want to go out with me, and do you think i should break up with him.

    so if i were you i would let the chick know how you feel but then not influence her decision. because if you influence her to break up with him and then start dating her, you will always be suspicious of her doing that to you. its just not a good way to start off dating.

    its worth the risk of getting rejected and not being friends with her, IF you think that you truly care about her and your feeling aren't fleeting.

    good luck with this, and i know that its sh*t. :/

    Source(s): been in this situation.
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