why do girls do this?

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I have seen so many bad examples with relationships in my life but why and is it really worth it.

a girl latin american with a guy american he has a great future ahead of him he gave her presents and took her out to eat, dates and all that. If she marries him she will get the u.s passport and have a better life she said to him that she loves him and he said to her the he loves her. the guy had to go back to the u.s he was a soldier. then when he came back he went to visit her again a year later after finishing his tour in Iraq but to his surprise she had a little girl in her hands he talk and said bie with  not saying anything about there past relationship left with a broken heart. her current status lives with her boyfriend and kid in her mothers house guy make a small or not at all living. he still goes and visit her and every time the mother asks him to marry her. who was the soldier? Do i really have to say it.

there are other things i wanted to post but it might insult the female population so i took it off

I KNOW THERE ARE GIRLS THAT ARE MAD ABOUT THIS POST AND I KNOW THERE IS ALOT TO SAY ABOUT GUYS.  I HOPE A FIND A GIRL IN MY LIFE THAT I CAN BE PROUD OF I WILL WAIT FOR THAT DAY TO COME.

melissa · Accepted Answer

Just because you have seen examples of bad relationships doesn't mean that in your future, you will have bad relationships. You seem upset, but know this... your life is what you make it. Sometimes sh*t happens and people screw you over. But for the most part, people are inherently good. Look around next time you are walking down the street, or somewhere in a public place. I guarantee that you will see people holding hands. You will find a girl that you can be proud of in the future, for sure! All the best.

Deadpan · Answer

I find in most occasions girls (the ones I have dated) are afraid to hurt my feelings and will go out with me a few times until they feel comfortable to break up, not realizing it would have been better to just tell me they weren't feeling it. You seem to put a lot of infasis on how you make good money and have a good job, this means nothing to some women and to be honest the ones it means the most to are probably not wanting to be with you for you. I was raised by my Mom and Grandma and I feel I have a pretty good insight on how women think. I hate to say it but the woman maybe did not love you as you thought she did. Maybe she couldn't handle a long distance relationship. Also look to your own behaviors, do you always blame the women when your relationship fails. I'm not saying it's your fault, but you need to be open to the possibility, and pay attention to the conversations and situations during your interactions. Hope this helps.

Jenn · Answer

Am a girl and I would be offended but, you can't deny what's partialy true. And I agree with you. Thou not all girls are like that. I for fact am not like that :D

Sabi · Answer

sorry I couldn't understand what you were trying to write. I got confused

Anonymous · Answer

Whoa. Wait, what part of this is the question?

Anonymous · Answer

your grammar is terrible.

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