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Whos the one to blame? Can i get introuble?
My friend kate came over to my house because she wanted to hangout with me that night. While there, she asked my twin sister if she could use her ID to get into a bar. (My sister doesnt really care for kate because kate always lies about her age, saying shes 18 when really she's 17). I was confused because i had no idea that we was going to a bar. Anyways, kate asked my sister and my sister is too nice to say no, but hesitated to say yes. She never told kate YES, she just told her "um, you don't look like me" and also told her continously "i don't want you to get caught or anything" but kate kept begging and begging and just snatched it out of my sisters hands, but that rudely. When we left my house, kate and i rode to our friend miranda's house, because kate wanted to hangout with her aswell. We kept kates car there and road with miranda to some guys party. (it was kates friend, she invited us to go and kept begging us to go. it was all her idea) when we go to the party, kate started to drink her alcoholic beverage reallly fast and started to act drunk. She kept gossiping in my ear about other ppl in the house. She even said that miranda was talking **** about me, but i didn't believe it. When we left the party, only kate the one drunk, we were gonna try to go to that bar, but kate seemed to wasted so we just brought her to her car. Like a good friend, i wasnt gonna let her drive drunk, so i drove, while miranda followed. I gave kate her keys and told her to be careful, and to take care of her body and to go to sleep. I hopped in the car with miranda and we went to a local bar. While there, i recieve an unknown caller, i answered it and it was kates mom. She sounded really angry. She said "what is wrong with my daughter? shes drunk! what did you do?" i replied "Ms margy" while calm "i didn't do anything, me, my friend miranda and kate when to kates friends house" i didnt want kates mom to know that she was chugging drinks because im not a snitch and i said "she was just sittin down drinking a few glasses of wine, i wasnt around her because she kept walking around everywhere, i just sat on the couch to chill" Her mom replied "your lieing, you got her drunk and why werent you by her? your suppose to be her friend! And i cant find her cell phone anywhere, where is it?" i said "i have no idea ms margy, ill go look for you" i looked everywhere in mirandas car, and didnt find it. i told kates mom that i didnt find it and she said "you probably stole it, your not a good friend then" and hung up. She called again later and said "i found your sisters id in kates purse and im gonna report it to the police that you gave a minor an id to get into the bar" i replied " we didnt go into a bar, i wouldnt do that. I drove her home because she was really drunk, me and miranda did alot for her. we didnt give her the id, she just snatched it." kates mom said "well im just telling you whats going to happen" and hung up again. Now kates mom continues to text me. She txt me today and said "why did your sister give kate her id when she knows kates not 18" i said "who is this?" because it was an unrecognized number. and the text i got back said "leave me alone" and i said "well, my mom knows everything and if you have a problem, call her" The last text i recieved said "if you keep texting me, there will be problems." WHAT THE **** DID I DO???? plz help.
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- Hugh TLv 410 years agoFavorite Answer
Your friend Kate, (and she doesn't sound like much of a friend) is the way she is because of who raised her (her mother).
Sounds like Kate doesn't take responsibility for her actions and it looks like Mommy NEVER holds Kate accountable for her actions. (Everyone else's fault, not her baby girl's)
Kate is impulsive, self-indulgent and like any individual that doesn't take responsibility, she's trying to pass it off on ANYONE else.
Actions speak more than words.
I'd lose her.
Source(s): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship - Anonymous10 years ago
As it is common for teenagers to get in situations such as these, it isn't one person to blame. Your friend did seem at fault, but I am assuming Kate will say what she has to to avoid trouble from her mom meaning she'll probably throw you under the bus and lie, which is sounds like she already has. The reason for her mother's anger is mostly because she is worried about her daughter, which is the natural reaction from a protective mother. When parents get worried and upset, they tend to say things they do not mean. It is unlikely she would call the police, but at the most you will tell your side of the story, get a slap on the wrist, and get told to stay away from Kate. Nothing too bad will happen, but on the safe side, tell your parents everything so you should all have the same alibi. With that said, it is good to tell your parents about this situation because it is easier to defend yourself when your parents can back you up when under attack from Kate's mom.
- ?Lv 610 years ago
tell your friend Kate, to tell the truth or to never come around again. because it was all her fault, besides grabbing the id when your sister told her no. is the same as stealing, and that if need be you will report it stolen if she does not give it back. sorry' but I would not call someone that acts in such a way a friend, because she seems to be the type that will get you into trouble. and will not admit it was all her own doing. if she told her mom the truth all of this would never have happen, sorry' but it was her fault and so it is her problem. but it seems as if she is putting the blame on you and your sister. I would never be friends with such a person, for as I said she will always get you into trouble and lie about it.