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Bunny
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Bunny asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 10 years ago

How many hours is it ok to leave your 1-3 small children with your 70 year old mother for her to babysit them?

for free while she also cares for her mother-in-law who has Alzheimer's and other health issues?

Also, how many days a week is this ok to do?

Update:

The children range from 1 year to four and are pretty rowdy. Mother is pretty busy with her mother-in-law who has Alzheimer's and health problems as well. It is very stressful when the children are there, especially for long periods, when they are sick (especially contagious), haven't slept or eaten or other things are going on. I think this is not a good or safe idea ~ the more elderly of the women could end up falling on toys or something IMO. And it just seems inconsiderate.

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  • 10 years ago
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    I wouldn't at all, personally.

    Maybe if there was another adult or even a teenage cousin to help, but not a 70 year old alone.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    None your mother clearly has her hands full with her mother in law and her health problems watching children under the age of 5 at the moment is not a good idea for her she wouldn't be able to give care to the children best bet is leave them with another family member or a daycare or get a babysitter

  • 10 years ago

    I wouldn't recommend you to leave the kids with an elderly lady who already has her hands full. Yeah, it's free but it's not safe for your kids. Small children need to be supervised at all times.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    I gave you an answer on your other question in parenting.

    But, I just want to chime in here to let people know that 70 isn't as "old" as it used to be.

    My mom is 74 and in FINE shape. Sure, she is more tired than she was when she was raising me, but she is COMPLETELY with it to be able to take care of my children (they are teens now, though) if I would ever need her to.

    Don't base your answers on age...or at least, don't be so quick to judge her capabilities because of her age.

    Shoot my mom still drives, FINE, and has NEVER had a ticket.

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  • 10 years ago

    Zero hours. It's inconsiderate and selfish. Another example of an adult taking advantage of their parent.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    1 min

  • ?
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    my answer is... never.

    some thoughts here.

    1. extremely rude and intrusive of the parents of the BABIES.

    2. why doesn't the 70 year old just say "oh hell no".. I would and I am half that age.. well, my math maybe off.. it doesn't matter, I would say "If you can't watch your own MULTIPLE BABIES, look into adoption."

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Never! My mom is 47 and whenever my nephew comes over(he's almost 2) she and I are exhausted!!!

  • 10 years ago

    None. She has her hands full with the demented woman and is not young herself.

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