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I feel loveless and alone...? ?

i been feeling really alone and loveless. I've never been kissed and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had crushes in the past, but the only guys I've liked lately are ones I can never really have (band members, actors etc) I want to find love or at least someone to like. it doesn't feel normal not to have feelings for anyone. is there anything in can do or should I just wait it out for mr right?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Hi Holly,

    If you want to meet Mr. Right, then you'll need to take some initiative.

    How do you get a guy to like you, and perhaps want to become your BF? Make good eye contact, ask a few generic questions (assignments, homework, whatever), be nice & pleasant, and have a friendly smile. Laugh at his jokes. Tell him "thank you" if he helps you with anything. Give him a compliment. Repeat daily.

    So, assuming that you might wish to avoid a few of the more common dating pitfalls... how about some free advice about guys and dating? OK.

    What do guys look for in a girl? That depends on the guy and his age.

    Typical young immature teenage guys:

    1. Hot body

    2. Cute face

    3. Hot body

    4. Willing to fall for their lines of crap

    5. Hot body

    Typical players & creeps:

    1. Hot body

    2. Dumb enough to fall for their lines of crap

    3. Hot body

    4. No Dad or big older brother to protect her

    5. Hot body

    Typical geeks & shy guys:

    1. Any reasonably attractive female who would be willing to date him

    Typical mature & decent guys:

    1. Nice personality (not too clingy, not too dramatic, not an airhead)

    2. Nice body (hot would be good... but not required)

    3. Cute face

    4. Intelligent

    5. Not a sl*t

    In order to protect your tender heart, it's a good idea to be cautious about the types of guys that you would be willing to date... and watch out how you behave, too. Why?

    - Because lots of young guys tend to be frogs… not princes.

    - Because many guys will typically want to go way past kissing if the girl allows it.

    - Because sheltered and inexperienced girls can be too vulnerable, too impulsive, and too emotional.

    - Because some girls have poor judgment and believe the lies spouted by a jerk or player.

    - Because many guys are typically only interested in what's in a girl's panties.

    - Because some guys don't care about a girl's feelings.

    - Because lots of guys are frequently focused solely on satisfying their own selfish desires.

    - Because many girls tend to equate love with kissing and sex (translation - they get their heart trampled), while most young guys don't (translation - they simply say "See ya later, Dummy!").

    - Because after the inevitable break-up, a young lady will often feel as though her world has collapsed.

    Ironically... jerks, players, and liars are usually the most fun and the best looking, so you always need to be on your guard.

    Why are jerks, players, and liars able to inflict so much damage? Because there are lots of foolish girls out there who have the following issues:

    - No parental supervision

    - Lack of a good Dad in their lives, so they readily accept the attention from jerks (because they crave male love and approval)

    - Are gullible and easily lied to

    - Allow guys to quickly become physical

    - Give away their virginity based on the lies a jerk will whisper into her ears

    - Don't mind getting treated like crap

    - Do not learn from their mistakes after getting dumped and heartbroken

    Don't be tempted to act like a sl*t. If you head down that road, then you'll only succeed in attracting complete jerks who will then proceed to wreck your life... and make your parents really mad at both you and the jerk.

    What are some hazards of dating? Here are a few -

    1. Watch out for those handsome players or creeps who might pretend to like you, because you could easily fall for their phony attention and smooth lines of crap. Beware - they'll use your body and then dump you like a sack of potatoes.

    2. Decide on your physical limits before you start dating, and stick to those limits. Getting too excited while being alone together with your date or your steady BF is not the time to start thinking about setting limits... your judgment will be clouded, and your BF's judgment will be long gone.

    3. No matter what, don't date any older adult guys who pretend to be interested in you. They're even worse than players your own age... and like the players they'll only be interested in one thing... and it won't be your mind.

    As time passes, some of your friends and classmates will probably be expecting you to follow whatever path they are traveling... even if it is a stupid path of dating jerks, making out with random guys, or casual sex.

    How can you keep your heart from getting trampled? Keep your panties on until you get married. That'll eliminate 99% of the creeps, losers, and players... and mistakes of passion... which will make your life much happier and simpler in the long run. You'll also be protected against pregnancy, STD's, and excessive heartache.

    Final advice? Don't make too many stupid decisions, don't date jerks, don't drink too much booze or take any drugs, don't have friends who drink heavily or take drugs, listen to your Mom and Dad, read the Bible (the Gospel of John is a good place to start), and then everything will turn out fine.

    Those are a few things for you to think about, Holly. Good luck!

    Signed, PC

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    Source(s): Repetitive Cylindrical Logic Link to some good dating advice for young ladies posted on Y!A - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ans04... Link to Y!A advice regarding how to spot and avoid jerks & players - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuMSi... Link to conservative virginity advice for young ladies on Y!A (in support of keeping your virginity until the wedding night) - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoG0S...
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  • DaveWH
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    You didn't say how old you are. I'll assume teenager. I thought that I could wait for miss right. Wrong!!! I had to go out and look for her!! You have to go where the boys are. What social outlets are there for you in your area? These days, the internet offers a wide variety of ways to hook up with someone, though, I won't deny that it carries some risk, but, perhaps no more so than meeting someone using conventional social methods. Check out what there is. Ask your friends how they met their partners. Don't give up. Good luck to you

  • 9 years ago

    Hello there :). You aren't the only one feeling alone gurl. Many people around the world havent had their first boyfriend and their first kiss. Dont stress out . haha. Just be the beautiful girl that you are. I know that probably right know you are saying," Yeah right! Im not even close to pretty." But yknow what? I bet you are really pretty! Just be you , and do the things you love to do. I once felt the same way you felt. But within time, i learned that boys will come, if you just be you. Focus on the things that make you happy! Do the things you love/hobbies. Dont focus that much on love life,and kissing. It will come eventually within time. Love will blossom WITHIN TIME. Just focus on you. Mr.Right will come. Wish you luck and happiness.

    Source(s): Experience
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