What does it mean when your spouse of 5 yrs didnt even get you a x-mas gift or even say thanks 4 his?

Well if you got him one and he got you nothing ??

I would be asking him whats going on It's x-mas , there's No type of communication, ? let alone you not getting a present and him being fianace'?

Sounds like he's lost intrest, or could be going through some type of personal ordeal .

I would tell him that, "you BOTH!!! have to talk and get to bottom of situation" if you really care for him and he cares for you!!

Both will work it out "Dont let it go un- finished" !

If you are asking us strangers about this and not asking him, then there is a fairly big lack of communication betw you and him, so that's a problem in itself.

Now, I don't even know you but from the two things you said I already know you have a problem with your man, therefore there's a big chance this is only the tip of the iceberg.

Maybe it's a feeling of being at a comfortable or entitled level with you? But if he's as cold as you say, then maybe he's sending you a signal about your relationship and where it stands.Sorry, I know how much it can hurt.

Ask him what is going on. Sit down and talk to him. It could be a ton of thing from stress to work or even him wanting to break up. His recent changes in behavior are worthy of conversation...

it sounds as if he's depressed or just taking you for granted or no longer in love. You need to find out if it's general depression, in which case you need to help him somehow, or if it's the relationship that he no longer likes. The approaches would be really different.

Sounds like you guys have a serious issue. Are you by any chance having financial difficulties? I would suggest having a positive converstion with him explaining that you care about him and you need to find out what is going on with him. Please keep it positive or he wont talk to you. Once you know whats going on try and help out with the situation.

I'm confused. One time you wrote "spouse of 5 years" and then you wrote "fiance."

There's a difference, you know.

It means you need to figure out the difference between a spouse, a fiance, a boyfriend and a guy who is keeping you around for sex.

"What does it mean when your spouse of 5 yrs "

"I got my fiance "

"He hasn't been talking to me for awhile now"

Well since he is your fiance, I would cancel the wedding. If there is no wedding being planned, then he is only a boyfriend and I would break it off.

talk to him, be straight up on whats bothering you

if he doesnt open up then leave and give him and yourself some much needed space