Staying in a Relationship? Guys opinions?

good for you. You should stand up for your self! no one deserves this treatment. Let him know you forgive him after a while.

Personally, I think that guy is really hormonal. He thinks with his di'ck, not his head.

He has a really faithful girl in front of him, and yet he feels he still has obligation to this other bi'tch.

If it was me.. I would have a nice calm conversation sometime with him... I'd tell him...

"You have to make a choice, it's me or her. You can't have us both. If you cannot break this false obligation and these false feelings that you have for this other girl then you are not the one for me, and I will have to take my leave."

"Obviously this girl does not care about you, she is just using you to get sh'it. She knows that you still love her alot, and she is using that to her advantage. If she really loved you as much as you loved her, you both would still be together, and you would not have chosen me to be with instead."

That's all it is, the bit'ch is through with him, but he's still attached. He keeps going back to give her sh'it and she's not going to refuse it of course! You have to let him know that, because I seriously doubt he is full aware of that. Maybe he still sees a chance that is simply not there anymore.

You've already answered your own question. Why would you be engaged to someone who doesn't have a lot of fine qualities and is clearly still involved with another woman? You're blaming HER when it should be HIM. It's not going to change. The question is, is this love? No, it is not. This is using. If this is your cup of tea, then by all means, stay with him. But you're better off looking elsewhere.

Try to make it work if you really love him, but you shouldn't just let this carry on. Maybe go and talk to the girl. Or tell him that it's over if things don't change. Relationships are very important and you should be able to trust your guy, don't let it stay this way, but try to convince him if you really don't want to lose him. Tell him your feelings. Good luck.

wow ive been through that delima... its not easy.. and it never gets pretty.. it really depends on the guy you have..

if you wanna make it work with him then tell him to cut her off and you need to explain to him that it makes you feel uncomfortable and make you feel insecured about that whole ex gf in his life.. if he doesnt cut her off his life then he obviously still have feelings towards her. and for him to stop kissing you is wrong.. ~_~ im sorry hun that you have to go through this.. if it was me.. i would leave him if he doesnt agree to cut her off his life. But then again it can force him to cheat on you if you stop him from seeing her or texting her. so its really up to you if your able to over come that whole friendship ex. goodluck sweety

Just tell him straight up how you feel, and that it's either her or you. Sometimes people have to choose between their friends and their lovers. This is one of those times IMO.