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Hi! I'm Judy May, I'm Engaged. I am Finally Happy. I'm A BIG P!NK Fan. Love Her! Cheers

  • Bringing my 3 month old to a dance recital?

    So basically, it is my nieces dance recital, who I love dearly, and has had to adjust to a lot of things this past year.

    We used to be super close, but then I ended up getting a pretty demanding full time job, and I got pregnant. So I wasn't able to be over at her house every other day like I was with my part time job. I also live an hour away from her.

    I was going to leave my 3 month old daughter with my mom for the day so that she could babysit ( this niece is my husbands niece not my biological one)

    so that my niece could still have something that is special and completely hers. We also take her out to dinner at any restaurant she chooses after her recital.

    Basically, leaving my daughter would mean my full on attention to my niece, I wouldn't have to worry about my daughter crying, or her ears getting hurt by the very loud music, and I wouldn't have to run off with my daughter when she needs to be fed.

    The other thing Is I know my mother in law will feel like my daughter not being there is a personal attack, she complains about not seeing her, but we are always expected to make the hour drive to see them, and they never stop by to see us when they are in town, even when they are 15 minutes from our home. I am fully prepared to deal with the fall out from that.

    But does anyone think I am making the right decision?

    Or is it the wrong one?

    Thank you for your helps, sorry that it's long!

    Cheers :)

    2 AnswersNewborn & Baby7 years ago
  • Make up and nails? Help!?

    Hi! I have an Job interview at a trendy clothing store tomorrow, and i was just wondering what colors for a young trendy clothing store do you all think would be appropriate for make up and nail polish?

    I'm going to wear a semi casual black dress with nice black flats. i'm also going to curl my hair and i have really long hair.

    My eyes are dark brown and almond shaped and i am extremely pale.

    Cheers

    Thank you Anyone who can help.

    2 AnswersOther - Beauty & Style9 years ago
  • PCOS Diet! Things to Eat, Things to avoid HELP!?

    Hey, just was wondering if anyone had any good diet tips or any lists of foods that are good or bad for PCOS. Thanks so much in advance.

    Cheers.

    19 AnswersTrying to Conceive9 years ago
  • PCOS Diet, Things to Eat, things to not!?

    Hullo, just wondering if anyone that has PCOS (poly-cystic ovarian syndrome) would be able to tell me the foods that have been good for them and bad for them. The diet that's worked for you.

    Thanks so much!

    Cheers.

    1 AnswerDiabetes9 years ago
  • Anyone with PCOS Have Advice?

    Hi, I was wondering if Anyone with PCOS has any Diet tips?

    Like the foods that are good for it, foods that are bad.

    I can't do any hormones right now unfortunately. and i am Hypothyroid as well.

    Trying to loose weight to help it get rid of my cysts and i thought who better to help but fellow suffers.

    Thanks to anyone who can give me advice. And Diet tips.

    Cheers.

    1 AnswerWomen's Health9 years ago
  • Anyone Know Somewhere Nice In Ontario that''s Not too Expensive to stay?

    Hey, i was looking to surprise my fiance with a night away that wasn't to expensive in Ontario for a one night stay somewhere. Not in Niagara Falls really or anything, unless you know somewhere that's reasonably priced and clean.

    Thanks!

    3 AnswersOther - Canada9 years ago
  • How can i get over no one being excited for me to get married?

    I'm engaged and planning a wedding for next year.

    I'm happy, i love my fiance, my family loves him, he loves me.

    But no one ever seems excited about my wedding plans.

    My sisters getting married later this year, and i'm doing everything to help her, and everyone always asks how her wedding plans are going, but no one ever asks about my wedding plans. I asked my mom if she'd come see the hall with me she said no she's already seen it. (yes 12 years ago) i've asked her and my dad to look at wedding dresses online with me, and they aren't interested.

    I've had a really rough life because of being sick and stuff, i'm finally happy and somethings finally working, so why isn't anyone happy for me? how come no one cares about my wedding? I'm the "baby" in the family.

    How can i get over no one being excited for me?

    Thanks!

    12 AnswersEngagements & Weddings9 years ago
  • Drinking while on Topirmate?

    Hey, i'm on Co-topiramate, I've been on it for about a month now. i used to be on it a couple years ago, but i wasn't legal drinking age. Now i am Legal drinking age, and was wondering is it really safe to drink at all while being on this drug? i'm not saying getting drunk, i don't do that. but having a glass of wine, or a margarita?

    have you had bad effects from being on this drug and drinking?

    Thanks for any help

    Cheers!

    1 AnswerOther - Health9 years ago
  • Wedding Venues in Toronto or Durham?

    Hey, i'm planning my wedding and i was just wondering if anyone knows of reasonably priced indoor venues suited for 50-60 people in the Durham or Toronto Ontario areas.

    Any experience would be great to know about thanks!

    Cheers

    1 AnswerWeddings9 years ago
  • Anyone know any good Wedding venues in the Toronto or Durham Region in Ontario?

    Hey, I'm planning on getting married in about a year. My fiance and i are just wondering if anyone knows any good places in the Toronto or Durham region in Ontario that are fairly priced, and if you've had a good experience.

    Links and venue recommendations are highly appreciated Thanks!

    Cheers :)

    4 AnswersEngagements & Weddings9 years ago
  • Why does it bother me so much that my fiance's so secretive?

    we've been together a year now, in the first six months of our relationship he was in love with a girl that he had been in love with for 3 years previous of us meeting. But when we got together he was still inlove with her. I had no idea, i honestly thought they were just friends. i had no problem with him having female friends, but being in love with someone else, and stating that he is in love with me as well, hurt.

    He's incredibly secretive, hates if i kid about wanting to know his passwords to different things. I honestly only ever joke and i say it in my playful and happy joking tone. He knows i am, but freaks out if i ask about knowing passwords.

    He has lied to me, i still am not completely over the fact he was in love with this other girl.

    But no he is very secretive, and hides so much from me.

    Does anyone know how to get over both of these?

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Which is Easier Knitting, Or Crocheting?

    I can't seem to get crocheting down!

    Is knitting easier?

    how did you first learn them?

    Cheers.

    5 AnswersHobbies & Crafts9 years ago
  • Staying in a Relationship? Guys opinions?

    So, I'm currently engaged. I wanted to know if anyone else thinks i should break the relationship off, or continue.

    I really love this guy.

    He's lied to me, not told me what's gone on, told me half truths, also wouldn't cut off a Very needy Female friend who he was in love with for four years. She used him and he wouldn't break his "friendship" off with her. Now the reasons that effect our relationship was because no matter what he'd go see her. I'm even sure he cancelled a couple dates with me early on in our relationship to hang with her.

    It upset me, cause he'd change when she texted, or wanted to hang. he wouldn't cuddle with me or kiss me or anything.

    We have our ups and downs, but this was a big down. I really do love him and i want it to work. He really had hurt me with his relationship with her. He'd honestly ignore me, and treat me like crap.

    This chick used him for everything she could, mean while he was inlove with her She is a C**k tease

    I'm just not sure if this will really work or not, or should i try to make it work.

    thanks For answering sorry it's long.

    Cheers

    6 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships9 years ago
  • When You are Celebrating Your Anniversary?

    My fiance and i are celebrating our first year anniversary.

    I bought him a dog tag and had it engraved, it was the only jewelry he could wear under his shirt. but i put his favourite picture of us on it, And a very nice loving inscription.

    See, the thing is he never said happy anniversary on Facebook, twitter, or anything.

    I wrote a blog about it, and i also tweeted it. i also wrote out over two hundred things i love about him on a Bristol board and gave it to him

    I made his birthday Extra special, took him to his favourite restaurant, and bought him really sweet gifts.I wrote a giant happy birthday on Facebook, he just liked it, the only person he responded to for the birthday wishes was one of his friends cause it was an inside joke.

    So i want to know, why does he never publicly acknowledge the things I've done for him? Or our anniversary or anything?

    Thanks for Answering. Sorry it's long.

    Cheers

  • what makes a perfect girlfriend to you?

    simple, what do you all imagine your perfect girlfriend to be like?

    8 AnswersPolls & Surveys9 years ago
  • who's weirder him or me?

    okay who's weirder my fiance for being ticklish when i lick him with my tongue? or me for licking him with my tongue? to be fair i figured it out when we were having foreplay...........

    3 AnswersPolls & Surveys10 years ago
  • Anyone know any good songs about The person you love being inlove?

    But not with you with someone else..

    I know the Taylor swift ones.

    but any other ones.

    No Disney Stars.

    Thanks.

    Cheers.

    4 AnswersLyrics10 years ago
  • Is He Still In love with Her?

    So i am Engaged to a guy who i am head over heels with. But i have a problem.

    For three years, he was in love with this girl, who used him, seriously, she got him to be her and her boyfriend personal chauffeur, she fully knew he liked her. he did anything for her. And he was in love with her. we've been together Now for 9 months. For 6 Of those months they were still talking, and having coffee dates. Whenever i brought her up, he'd get very angry and defensive. His family can't stand her. His best friends couldn't stand her.

    I didn't like what i heard about her, and it was effecting our relationship, he actually canceled dates with me, if she wanted to hang out.

    If we were cuddling at his place simply watching a movie, and he got a text from her, he'd stop cuddling me, and wouldn't hug me, or kiss me. He'd get very cold. It got to a point where he'd just get grumpy about her. I asked him several times if he loved her. he'd never be honest with me.

    He stopped talking to her three months ago. But anytime anyone mentions her he gets defensive. He says he doesn't realize it, but does this mean he is in love with her still? I'm just worried he's not actually interested in me. And still longs to be with her.. I know she'll do anything to get what she wants. Any advice to what to do would be Very helpful. thanks sorry it's long.

    Cheers.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • anyone know any good songs about Being Really Hurt?

    Any really good songs about being cheated on? or being in a relationship when the guy loves someone else still?

    Any suggestions?

    thanks :)

    7 AnswersLyrics10 years ago
  • Nephew Jumped On Me really Hard Today?

    Hi, my nephew jumped on my chest today, he's about 30 pounds, his knees went right on my right rib cage, and his head landed on my chest. He did this twice really hard, I have a really bad severe pain now where my ribs are. i'm pretty sure there not broken, but it's killing me, i can't even lay on that side. Anyone know whats wrong? or could be wrong?

    Thanks for the help cheers :)

    1 AnswerOther - Health10 years ago