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? asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 9 years ago

female logic help??? Thanks?

So a girl asked me: Do you prefer to hook up or have a real relationship? I'm assuming She wants a relationship for emphasizing relationship with real... Am I right? Or am I over analyzing. What do you think? Say hook up... hook up with her then have a real relationship if I like her? I'm a 21yr old socially awkward virgin btw.

Update:

Get to know myself? I just went through psychosis and came back. A week or 2 ago I even got a, "you haven't changed since high school," comment. If I can refind myself I think I know who I am, I just don't know what I truly want because i go with the flow. I'm too mellow; suffice with just about any given situation. I'd be alright with either situation. I just need help on how to answer this question without closing one of the 2 options.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Sit down and ask if she would like to be in a relationship with you, if you say hook up then she might not consider you as real relationship material if you want to take it to the next stage. and if your last sentence is accurate then you may want a real relationship before you 'hook up' with someone

  • 9 years ago

    What do you want?

    I honestly think you should spend some time to get to know yourself before getting into something with a woman. A man that doesn't know his own mind is easily manipulated and can get hurt.

  • 9 years ago

    she sounds intense but so do you, she is seeing what you want.

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