How do a female become sexually addicted & actually get intense orgasm doing it?

Explore, everyone is different (this is especially noticeable with women, and for most relaxation is a big key). The only reason that women aren't as "down to ****" as guys is because with guys, sex is like pizza, its still good even if its not that great. Whereas with women, you can keep going and arguably more intense (with g-spot and clitoral stimulation), but what is the appeal of sex if your not going to get off? I mean its a bit more complicated for us to get it right for you (men getting it right for women). Plus some people are more romantic than others and want more of a connection, while some people are more into the casual fling.

But the difference in how much women think about sex and men really isn't all that big of a gap. But lifestyle choices like eating unhealthily, low self esteem, little physical activity, and little social interaction can also inhibit your sexual drive.

So in the end, a lot of things can dictate what works for you and what doesn't. If you just feel like experimenting by yourself toys/special lubes are always an option, plus you could try erotic stories as well (a bit more immersion and less fake than porn). Plus stories could help you find what you are into, and what not so much.

I'll go ahead and answer. Even though I'm not a woman, I've read about the subject and think I can answer well. Recent studies have found that women's vaginas have the physical reaction of getting lubricated at a heighthened level during any forced sex to protect themselves from infection. If you look at it from the evolution point of view, rape was more commonplace historically and medical treatment was not, therefore the woman's vagina became very aroused and lubricated during forced sex in order to protect from tearing and an infection that could set in and kill the woman. The more aroused the woman got the more likely she was to orgasm, and since orgasm really lubricates, it would protect from even very violent rapes.  But then comes the question: so does that mean she liked it? And probably (and this is my personal theory) from an evolutionary standpoint women are physically aroused by forced sex and mentally they ABSOLUTLEY HATE rape. I think it's an evolutionary catch 22, on one hand if the woman's body didn't get aroused, and therfore lubricated, during the encounter she ran the risk of being injured, developing an infection and dying. On the other hand if women had mentally and emotionally enjoyed rape then they probably would act pretty crazy and couldn't have been very good mothers or wives because all it would take is for some stranger to come along and rape them and they would be off with him. If the world was like that men and women would probably just be getting jiggy 24/7. But I think women's bodies physically get arouse for protection during rape, but mentally and emotionally they HATE it.   But, not all forced sex is rape. And I think women have started to learn and realize that forced sex under parameters that they set, can be a huge turn on. I think that's what domination and submission S&M is about, many women have found that if they have forced sex for a certain time with someone they love in a situation they have set up themselves, it can be very arousing and is a way for them to own this reaction and have fun with it without the guilt. I think that's why the "taken in hand," and "fifty shades of grey" material is so popular currently. Now that many women have realized their bodies react so well to forced sex, they are indulging in fantasies without guilt by setting controlled situations up with their significant other so they can really enjoy hot animal sex, guilt free.  And why not, if that isn't empowerment, I don't know what is. 

Not everyone has a high sex drive and like the other person said not all women can orgasm. Not all men are addicted to sex, yes teenage boys may crave it more with all their hormones racing around but men don't always feel like it.

well... Im 25... and heres my knowledge..

Not all girls can orgasm, some honestly can't

smoke need to be stoned to orgasm

some need to be COMPLETELY comfortable with the guy

Size of the dick plays a huge part

Knowing how to lick a clit

Some girls actually completely lose their sex drive... and turn into not bi, not straight, not gay, nothing

Some girls turn to women because they find men just unapealing.

Maybe buy a dildo or a vibrator

explore more sexual options to see if you find it more interesting

some girls can orgasm from anal... ;)

it alll depends on you :)

Men are aggressive because they have to penetrate and woman receives penis into vagina.Every single person has different urge & requirement so it differs.Better you concentrate on some constructive activities rather than on comparing sexual desires.