My husband prefers porn to sex!?

The short answer.........There's something seriously wrong with your husband.

I'm sorry for you.

I am male, and this guy doesn't realize what he has in you if you do all the things you list here. It must be very frustrating doing all this and have him whacking instead: what a fool he is! This only a guess, but he can either be really lazy preferring to pop off by himself without having to go through the whole "event" ( does it have to be really complex with you, like a ritual that takes 2 hours?), or does he feel in order to make love with you he has to be perfectly clean and all his ducks in a row but the computer only requires a box of tissues. It seems to me he is more interested in the end rather than the sensual trip getting there. Hide his recharge cord, make a light dinner, soft music and candles and just keep it simple, maybe that is what he wants. MAYBE a sit down face to face talk with him and ask why he prefers 2D images over your 3D sexy body in person.

Men in relationships use porn because it's quick, easy, and not very messy. Real sex takes a while, uses a lot of energy, and then you have to worry about your partner "getting hers." Not to mention, if you do it right, you're probably gonna need a shower afterwards.

If it's affecting you this much, you need to talk to him. I'm sure he wouldn't mind servicing you in lou of one of his porn times.

yes very well put. one does not get that with porn. he gets something entirely different, that leaves a powerful unique impact on his mind (including being lied to about its actual pleasure, because many of the people in porn act). he goes continually back to that to re-expereince that high impact upon his mind which is felt as so s o real, and is felt as a sexual high. You are wealthy to get this info. I estimate over %95 of people are suffering silently like yourself, so tell everyone the true Nature of the Problem, point them to the solution manual & website, mentioned after my answer, and tell them to tell others. Nature of Problem: Mind manipulation: Various sexual presentations are filled with numerous very strong impactful mind altering manipulations. Having no chance to defend themselves, the viewer is delivered a powerful mental high, which is experienced as a powerful sexual high. The book reveals the manipulations, explaining how the mind works, and details how to free the mind from these cunning deceptions.

i think ur husband is porn adicted like me.my gf has the same problem with me.i sometime mastubate even in my college.what i think that those people who watch porn too much want a women who can make love like a pornstar not like a dull wife

I think you have it analyzed correctly - he is addicted. While I am addicted to gambling (I know it and can't stop) so is he addicted. There is a pleasure drug known as dopamine (the pleasure drug) and I think we have too much of it - that is my analysis - not a Dr.'s. He will need help quitting just as I need help to quit. He will have to see that he needs help to quit - if not he has to hit bottom in your relationship to realize what he has done to himself and you. That is so sad - a beautiful willing partner - and at your age - should be doing everythng to please you and not himself. Other than that , I have no clue.

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wow i'm in the same boat my husband acts like we have been married a long time but it's only a year were newlyweds also and i have threatened to leave he says he'll change but never does i;ve fought with him but the computer seems to win hands down i have no answer, sorry

If he prefers porn you are either really lousy at sex or a dog. The only other possibility is he is a pervert.

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