If a guy asks you on a date and he doesn't pay for your coffee and this is the first date?

1._ never!

2._ i would consider it a date if he asks me on a date

3._ he sounds like a douchebag

sorry for the tough love but you seriously need to drop a guy that invites you on a date and doesn't even pay for the cofee you asked for, if he likes you so much he should at least make an effort to be a gentleman.

Every guy is different. I'm more traditional in thinking that the guy should pay, but not every guy thinks the same. Just because you guys got coffee and he didn't pay for yours doesn't mean that it's bound for failure. Give it a chance.

sometimes its hard to - maybe the guy wanted to but didn't know how to approach it. Its a movie scene, not a real life scene.

yes - its nice for him to pay

but its not always something that can happen so easly - sometimes the cashier can even make it awkward by putting one item through the till - and your left thinking - ok, i'll pay for mine...

your shy enough on your first date - when things get a little different from "the movie style" you panic and act normal - that could be it...

Did he touch your a$s? Did he ask for kiss? If he took advantage of you and didn't even pay coffee for you, he's a big JERK. However, I don't think you really took that small money a big deal. It must be his personality you are not happy with. That's why you think he's not worth...

Maybe he didn't know if he should. Since some women are independent now days. Maybe you should of paid for his, and tell him next time he pays. Then again, maybe you should of ask him if he was going to pay for it, or you are paying for your own.

Go out with him again if you like him, thinks like who pays doesn't matter, it's coffee it costs what, $4? Don't be so shallow if you like him go out again.

why do you think he has to pay??? equal rights and all...id kinda fell offended if a guy wouldnt let me pay for my own things... my dad was controling like that and he ended up in jail and my pap was too and their in a divorce... my uncle believed in equal rights and their still married

maybe he believes that all people are equal or he wants you to like him for him and not money... or he could not have had enough to pay for it...

the asker pays on a first date.No i wouldnt date him.

I would, just make it clear that your not playing for your own sh*t. That doesn't count as a date.

It sounds like your probably sexually attracted this guy otherwise you wouldn't give him a second chance.

oh thats dumb the girl should never have to pay on the first date thats ridic i wouldnt if i were u uhg he's a jerk

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