I contacted my ex via facebook?

People change over 30 years.

I hope you let your husband know, or are going to hide it deep in the vault, so you can avoid any unnecessary drama.

Why did you feel a need to go there in the first place. What people put out there on Facebook may be a cleaned up version of reality. He is after all divorced, so the whole dedicated family man thing may be what you are reading into it, but not so much a fact if you were to speak with his ex wife.

Don't believe all you read or what an ex tells you, after all, he never intends to have a relationship with you and can tell you any story he wants to.

He may not have chosen you but obviously whoever he did choose and get married to it didn't work out since they're divorced now! Maybe his ways caused the issues too. He may have a new fiancé but Who knows where that will lead anyway.

i'm in a similar subject myself and that i completely consider you. yet i've got found out that oftentimes we girls human beings react to particular as we would elect our companions to react in the event that they have been in our place. The ex-fiancee making touch isn't inevitably a bad factor, if she has stable intentions. After explaining your emotions on your fiancee there is fairly no longer something you're able to do. regrettably, this may be a style of situations the place you may believe the guy you adore, and need that for the duration of the tip they'll do the suitable factor.

Well people grow up a lot over that amount of time. But if he has a fiance, you should leave him alone.

I think jakeb is right . He has grown mature after all these years. He loves his family and kids.He is now your past.Dont try to take him away from the ppl he loves.

Ask your husband if he feels comfortable with this. Does he even know what you are considering?

yes its wrong because your married. after all this time this shouldn't still even be on your mind.

good for u, what happen to ur current husband, did he died or else