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Help! Ive like him for 4 months. Its a long story.?

So, ever since I laid my eyes on him I found him attractive. (first day of school, 6 months ago) He is really cute, & ever since then we became really close. He has had a GF since the beginning of school. He would hardly talk about his relationship. We re really close. I went to his once, cause we were ditching school. We used to ditch class all the time & just sit and talk. We even had our own little graffiti thing going on. Were we would tag "HARM" on walls, desks and whatever else. About 2 months ago I told I had feelings for him. (he was still with his GF) He didnt say anything, we still continued being close friends. I wrote him letter a LOOONG time ago. Then, 4 weeks ago he finally replied. SO, now we always wright each other letters. We have funny discussions. He is really what I want. And a couple days ago... his GF broke up with him. But he wasnt even trippin about it. He ddint seem like he cared. He even told my friend that it doesnt matter if they get back together. Well, yesterday.. i went to a dance. And for some reason..I couldnt stop thinking about him. I really wanted him to go, Every guy I danced with I wanted it to be him. I want to be with him. But im scared he doesnt have feeling twards me. I know sometimes he shows it, & in his letters. He always walks me. How should I tell him that I want to be more than friends? Should I even tell him ? HELP.....

heres a pic of us. DO we make a cute couple? http://s289.photobucket.com/albums/ll221/hellobaby...

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    girl, i am in the same situation...but 4 years :\ anywho, tell him how you really feel. and if he blows that off like he did before, then maybe it would be better if yall were best friends forever, rather then being together for a couple of months, ya know? and if he says that he likes you back, than great for yall. but honsestly, honesty is the best quality, and since yall are so close, tell him. and i know we dont always practice what we preach (cuz my friends always tell me, how i should tell him the way he makes me feel) but deep down, i know it will all work for the best, so keep your hopes up, and know that whatever happes is for the best. i hope everything works out for yall, and p.s. yall do look really cute together, and im not just saying that. yall like mold into eachother perfectly <3

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  • 5 years ago

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