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Is he asking me out or not? Ambiguous text!?

So we've been texting for a while and we know we like each other but nothing seems to be progressing for some reason...Anyway I asked him about this new club open in town and said I really wanna go it seems cool...Then he replies "yeah I wouldn't mind going either haha" Is he asking me out or not? Do I ignore this and just change the subject? I'd like to go out with him but idk what he means by that. How should I respond?

Haha sorry for over thinking :P Thanks for the help guys! x

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I would not construe that as him asking you out, no. This is why people should put the cell phones down and talk to each other. I've seen more questions on here about "What does this text mean?". This guy may be shy. The haha means he thought about you two going together and it made him nervous. Probably because he's afraid to ask outright. He doesn't want to be seen as a stalker. The "haha" gives him an out if things got awkward(I was just kidding). If he didn't want to go at all he wouldn't have replied at all. You may have to make the move. Suggest you two go. No rule says you can't ask him out.

  • 9 years ago

    Text him or call him( if you guys talked on the phone before), and ask him to that new club. and invite a couple of friends. Plan it out with your friends and tell him, hey my friends and i are going to that club that I asked you about.Come and join us! Dont overthink, Just ask him and be cool about it. lol and if he says no its his loss.:) hope this helps

    Source(s): Experience
  • Liz
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    I think if you asked him to go he would go with you.

  • Mike
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    no hes not. but u should be like we should go check it out together

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