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Is my daughter being abused?

I'm very conserned she has an verbally abusive father that unfortunatey still is living with us but he wouldn't ever hurt her he'd kill himself if he ever did, she was beaten up by this boy from her school 2 times and was molested by her uncle 2 years ago during the summer... I'm very worried what do you think is wrong? Shes been acting weird lately..

- oversleeps

-dosnt like getting outta bed

-is depressed

-she's 15

-she has no motivation and is constantly upset and feels suicidal and worthless

-she dosnt get up early an do her hair or makeup anymore and don't care about anything she where's the sneaker clothes everyday (there wash a lot!) it's warm out and she's wearing a north face and leggings shes very well covered up she dosnt like to show skin anymore dosnt change for gym or anything she has unexplained bruises all over her body and has discharge lately she now wets the bed and I think has nightmares she crys every night in her room ( I hear her when i go near the door before i go to bed.

-she's withdrawing from everyone

-she's always scared and looking around

-she's irritable

Complaints of stomach cramps

Increased anxiety and anxiety attacks

She can't focus on anything

Weight gain sore throut

Mood swings

Highly increased trust issues

Screaming during her sleep she's ushally fighting her pillow and screaming stop

Dosnt like being photographed she never talks anymore she scared of

Men spending lots time in shower

Sorry it's a lot of writing I'm

Just really worried could you just please take the time to read this and help me out on what you think is wrong please

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  • 9 years ago
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    ''she has an verbally abusive father that unfortunatey still is living with us''

    WHY??? Why is he still there if he verbally abuses her???

    'she was beaten up by this boy from her school 2 times and was molested by her uncle 2 years ago during the summer''

    I am assuming that you got her into speak to someone 2 years ago when this first started or when you first found out and they advised her on how to deal with her crap sperm donor???

    What has YOUR counselor advised you to do about this?

    Does your daughter have a problem dealing with the fact that the boy that beat her up in school and her uncle have now been put in jail because you had them sent there because of what they did to her??

  • 9 years ago

    She needs Psychological help.

    She has UNEXPLAINED BRUISES all over her body

    Why are they unexplained bruises, you need to walk into her room and sit down and talk to her about what is wrong.

    You see all this going on and are doing nothing WHY?

    These are forms a deep depression, deep regression, withdrawl.

    She is on the verge of a psychological breakdown and could become Suicidal.

    Please get her help NOW.

    Call 911 if she does not want to talk and have a medic check her out for what is wrong, what ever it is it is deep rooted and is not going to go away easily.

    Source(s): Pastoral Counselor
  • yes some type of abuse is taking place in your daughters life.. and you should seriously get her and you some help.. you need to get her out of whatever living situation yall are in because it is damange to her mentally and clearly physically.. no offese but instead of yahoo answers.. you really should be looking up thearipist that she can seek help from. she is having repressed feelings about her past a present.. pls get her some help as soon as u can!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I think u need to reach her 4m da inside. U knw, ryt nw she is feeling insecure over various issues. Cant blame them at such vulnerable age. U need to comfort her and try your best to her feel an open mind with u. Talk to her and dn get to knw her issues. U and her can connect and u shud support her with positive alternate attitude to overcome these moments. As a parent u shud surrender ur ego be4 her..

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Yes.

    Source(s): I am a retired police officer. I retired as a sergeant, after 29 years, from a very large department, about 12,000 officers. I was a patrol officer for 4 years in a very diverse area. I was a tactical officer in the high rise project areas of my city. We called it vertical patrol in that we walked the the stairways of the high rises most of the time. I did that for 5 years and was promoted by test to detective. I worked violent crime (homicide, sex, officer involved shootings, robbery, kidnapping, serious non property incidents) for 11 years until I was promoted to sergeant. I worked as a street supervisor, a bicycle patrol supervisor and a desk sergeant/watch commander. During my time as a tactical officer and a detective I was a unit representative for the police union. I have a B.A in English and an M.S. in Law Enforcement Administration....
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