Do i respect people to much?

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Okay well im 17 (male) and have had a girlfriend for a month now and we haven't falling out once and as well with hat i really like her she really likes me but it just. im scared in case she will go off me because i am not "manly" enough i respect people so much and i dont fight i dont believe in fighting and i dont argue i just like to have fun and mess around but its always seems to back fire on me like me ex who cheated i thought its because im not being strict enough too? i am the most understanding person you could meet after all what my ex done to me this past 2 years over and over again i forgave her and we are so close now. but i am not one bit jealous i hate jealousy and i am thinking then its giving my girlfriend a chance to cheat as she knows i dont be suspicious? should i manly up like start being protective and tbh arrogant. or just leave it the way i am? Same with girls i have friends who are girls and i respect all girls when girls are drunk i would tell them if they are showing to much (for their own good) i do enj it but it would be disrespectful if i didnt tell them?   i would like your opinions thanks (:

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. You're a gentleman. Be proud. There are only few of us left.

Jasmin · Answer

You can respect people and be a pacifist all you like, nothing wrong with that, but you don't respect yourself enough to expect others to respect you, it seems. Letting people treat you like crap (like your ex) isn't showing respect, sounds like you're sugar coating the fact that you wont stand up for yourself or demand better. You sound like a good guy, but pay more attention to how you're letting yourself be treated. She wont go off on you for not bossing her around or being territorial, just work on that other part.

Anonymous · Answer

if she stops liking you as much then you can start worrying about being too nice but for now it sounds like she really likes you and maybe she likes your respectability and if you change that will make her not like you but now just stay the same unless it seems like being more manly is what she really wants you to do

? · Answer

Who the f.u.c.k cares what people think, be who you are and don't change it, if they don't like you cuz you like that then f.u.c.k them.

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Do i respect people to much?

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