James

So for the past 3 years i have always had some problem with my shoulders, for eample it normally happens when i wake up, so like lastnight i went to bed and could not lie on my side as my shoulders would hurt badly and as if they come out of place, sounds stupid but on morning it was 2 years ago in the summer i woke up and it was always my right shoulder giving me the problem my whole body was slanted to the side (right side) and everyone was telling me i have to go to the GP to get it seen too, but like any man if they arent dying then there is no need. my shoulders have been weak for around 3 years now i dont know how this started, and like today ive had enough of it (im irish so dont laugh) i was carrying sticks in from the back and i just physically couldnt do it my shoulders where so week, and now as i type my shoulders hurt? anybody know why this is happening and if i go to the gP with the just embarrass me and say "there is nothing wrong" because it does actually hurt to move it about (left one).

And i Thank You in advance..

Hey, im 19, male and from Ireland, so basically if you read my recent questions they are abut my psoriasis too, i had a problem with my scalp psoriasis, long story short i used to have to wash my hair every morning and night as it would be very tight and just scaly, i then got a job on march which meant i was always busy then with college and work (Call center) and about april and on i noticed when i woke up there was never any dandruff or anything link that, also Ireland had good weather this summer which helped it alot i didnt feel uncomfortable to walk about anymore and i never even touched my hair i always used to have to rub it as it would be itchy and sore especially in the heat but no it was perfectly fine it had all pretty much gone still have at the moment

Come September (Now) with cold weather i am now feeling my scalp get dry again not a lot but still starting to come back as psoriasis

what is the reason for this is it the sun that's good for it? and should i use the sun beds for this to see if it helps or what other reason could this be that it went away and now it is showing signs of coming back?

I would really appreciate any help or advice given!

Thanks!!

So i have a bit of Psoriasis on my scalp i only recently started getting it in the past 3 years wasnt bad enough to worry about it until i dyed my hair and it put my scalp to the point where i used to sweat through my head, used to leak water type liquid, wasnt good as i had to wash my hair 3 times a day, i went to the doctors and thet gave me abtibiotics and steroids for my scalp which i will be honest didnt exactly help but now half a year now or more its now settled but still not good as i have to wash my hair every morning and everynight (im a male btw) it isnt great for my social life as i am 18 and have to walk around paranoid about my hair and is it flakey, even the hairdressers is a scare for me.. it isnt bad psoriasis which im happy about its just i want to either stop it or help it a bit. so has anyone got any ideas? or what to do to prevent it from been bad? and tips? Please and Thankyou!!

So basically, im 18 and im a

student, maybe about a year

and a half ago i was all full of

confidence didnt care what

people said about me, i was a

happy and hyper person, but

then last year (around april

2012) i just all of a sudden lost

confidence and gained anxiety

but what i dont get is im a

happy person never feel down

except for monday mornings

ofcourse. i will try not sound

cocky or anything but i am slim

kinda built, brown hair and

your average joe. so for

example when im in college/

school i would be sitting

randomly in class or in the

canteen and just all of a

sudden i would start getting

flustered and all unsettled and

go very warm and i would be

able to feel my blood pumping

it can get that bad it almost

goes as a blur, it then got

worse where i wouldnt go out

as much, i would eat out,

socialize as much, would refuse

to go get my bus as i was

pretty much scared and i dont

know why! this was a shock for

me as i am VERY chatty and

would say hello to everyone..

and then it just changed where

i was almost scared of big

crowds and people.. it was as

if i was embarrased and shy of

myself which i am not.

summer came it got better

and then i only got maybe as

what i referres to them as

"anxiety attack" i dont know..

but only once a week which

was so releaving better than

maybe twice a day! forgot to

add i would also get red to the

face due to high blood

temperature due to the whole

anxiety problems and worry

over nothing

september came i got back

into college and was grand the

anxiety got better, i now am

actually more confident for

aome reason its as if it just

came back now but.. i am still

kinda scared to go out and eat,

i feel as if everyone ia looking

at me.. and i just cannot walk

through a shop without getting

flustered and all hot i cant

even sit inside anywhere even

if its raining, saying that i could

speak to a wall infact i am

more confident starting

converstations with a

randomer than standing in

silence in a que it makes me

uncomfortable..

So i will hopefully be in uni

next year and i can easily talk

to anyone its juat the randon

flusters i get and the anxiety

thats scaring even when im

asking this it sounds strange as

it came from nowhere!

because i would stand and chat

to anyone and become close to

them in a day i click with

moatly everyone, its just i hate

this anxiety and i want to be

able to actually go to a

restaurant and not leave

because i take a mini attack

thing its stupid i know but has

anyone got any tips or even

know whats going on? and as i

said im very chatty so sorry for

the book Rowal Dahl wouldnt

have a look in! ps. i cant spell

sorry.

Help... please!

So basically, im 18 and im a

student, maybe about a year

and a half ago i was all full of

confidence didnt care what

people said about me, i was a

happy and hyper person, but

then last year (around april

2012) i just all of a sudden lost

confidence and gained anxiety

but what i dont get is im a

happy person never feel down

except for monday mornings

ofcourse. i will try not sound

cocky or anything but i am slim

kinda built, brown hair and

your average joe. so for

example when im in college/

school i would be sitting

randomly in class or in the

canteen and just all of a

sudden i would start getting

flustered and all unsettled and

go very warm and i would be

able to feel my blood pumping

it can get that bad it almost

goes as a blur, it then got

worse where i wouldnt go out

as much, i would eat out,

socialize as much, would refuse

to go get my bus as i was

pretty much scared and i dont

know why! this was a shock for

me as i am VERY chatty and

would say hello to everyone..

and then it just changed where

i was almost scared of big

crowds and people.. it was as

if i was embarrased and shy of

myself which i am not.

summer came it got better

and then i only got maybe as

what i referres to them as

"anxiety attack" i dont know..

but only once a week which

was so releaving better than

maybe twice a day! forgot to

add i would also get red to the

face due to high blood

temperature due to the whole

anxiety problems and worry

over nothing

september came i got back

into college and was grand the

anxiety got better, i now am

actually more confident for

aome reason its as if it just

came back now but.. i am still

kinda scared to go out and eat,

i feel as if everyone ia looking

at me.. and i just cannot walk

through a shop without getting

flustered and all hot i cant

even sit inside anywhere even

if its raining, saying that i could

speak to a wall infact i am

more confident starting

converstations with a

randomer than standing in

silence in a que it makes me

uncomfortable..

So i will hopefully be in uni

next year and i can easily talk

to anyone its juat the randon

flusters i get and the anxiety

thats scaring even when im

asking this it sounds strange as

it came from nowhere!

because i would stand and chat

to anyone and become close to

them in a day i click with

moatly everyone, its just i hate

this anxiety and i want to be

able to actually go to a

restaurant and not leave

because i take a mini attack

thing its stupid i know but has

anyone got any tips or even

know whats going on? and as i

said im very chatty so sorry for

the book Rowal Dahl wouldnt

have a look in! ps. i cant spell

sorry.

Help... please!

So basically, im 18 and im a student, maybe about a year and a half ago i was all full of confidence didnt care what people said about me, i was a happy and hyper person, but then last year (around april 2012) i just all of a sudden lost confidence and gained anxiety but what i dont get is im a happy person never feel down except for monday mornings ofcourse. i will try not sound cocky or anything but i am slim kinda built, brown hair and your average joe. so for example when im in college/school i would be sitting randomly in class or in the canteen and just all of a sudden i would start getting flustered and all unsettled and go very warm and i would be able to feel my blood pumping it can get that bad it almost goes as a blur, it then got worse where i wouldnt go out as much, i would eat out, socialize as much, would refuse to go get my bus as i was pretty much scared and i dont know why! this was a shock for me as i am VERY chatty and would say hello to everyone.. and then it just changed where i was almost scared of big crowds and people.. it was as if i was embarrased and shy of myself which i am not. summer came it got better and then i only got maybe as what i referres to them as "anxiety attack" i dont know.. but only once a week which was so releaving better than maybe twice a day! forgot to add i would also get red to the face due to high blood temperature due to the whole anxiety problems and worry over nothing

september came i got back into college and was grand the anxiety got better, i now am actually more confident for aome reason its as if it just came back now but.. i am still kinda scared to go out and eat, i feel as if everyone ia looking at me.. and i just cannot walk through a shop without getting flustered and all hot i cant even sit inside anywhere even if its raining, saying that i could speak to a wall infact i am more confident starting converstations with a randomer than standing in silence in a que it makes me uncomfortable..

So i will hopefully be in uni next year and i can easily talk to anyone its juat the randon flusters i get and the anxiety thats scaring even when im asking this it sounds strange as it came from nowhere! because i would stand and chat to anyone and become close to them in a day i click with moatly everyone, its just i hate this anxiety and i want to be able to actually go to a restaurant and not leave because i take a mini attack thing its stupid i know but has anyone got any tips or even know whats going on? and as i said im very chatty so sorry for the book Rowal Dahl wouldnt have a look in! ps. i cant spell sorry.

Help... please!

Firstly i would like to say yes i am bi, 18 and recently in my friends group there is this guy he is attractive and funny and for a while hes been really flirty with me and just very i dont know a way a straight person wouldnt be an the things he says for example he pretends to have sex with me and laughs i laugh too thinking its a joke but not long ago we where together with friends and then after that a week later people are asking me did i kiss him? and hat he is saying we did? i think i would know if we did but i dont know why he would say it does anyone have any idea why? and yeah im not out eiher... Thanks!

Okay so im 18, male and average weight im like 10 st or a bit more i think, but anyway for past month i have been working out a lot just to get a six pack and build my arms, so i have been doing 300 sit ups? and i do 100 then lift weight and then another 100 sit ups and lift weights and then another 100 sit ups i was wondering is this a waste of time or will it eventually show soon it already has been showing even people say "wow youve gotten big" as in my arms and all.. so will it work? thanks!!

Okay I know I've asked this before but it just gets more confusing! So I'm 18, bi and well yeah I like this guy, I've liked him for a while and he is hot! First of all when I realised I liked him I just liked him been around and when I look at him he would look at me too and hold the stare and it would give me butterflies but see I don't know if he is definitely gay/bi he gets loads of women and just its confusing, but now everytime we talk it more flirty talking and joking with eachother and all! If I haven't seen him for a while and then I do I would see this big smile on his face! And I don't know I feel there something between us as in when we talk you can feel the tension! At a party we were both at was just me and him in the toilets and I said to him joking around, your gay! And he replied I know I am? And then it went on I was said "no but you really are" and then he got serious and said I am gay but I still dnt believe him! And then when were in a group he even said to my ex girlfriend that we hooked up me and him! Everyone laughs cause we know he's joking, but he just gives me that look! And then recently last week he was at my house (he's friends with my sister bf and my brother so he's always around) and it was just me and him on the sofa watchen tele when others where in the kitchen cooking, he said to me "I've got a present" and I laughed and said what is it and he opened up his trousers (not unbutton as in lifted then up from the waist) and said there it is look! So I got all flustered and blushed and he noticed and laughed at me! And I walked out of the room while he wa laughen at me, it was funny but he just gets even more flirty now! So recently I was thinking should I tell him I like him or play along and see how far it goes or is he just been like this cause he knows he can mess me around? He isn't camp and either am I we're just both average joes! So that's what makes it even confusing! But one night I nearly told him I liked him when I was drunk! So maybe he knows what I was going to say? I need help lol.. Give me some opinions or what I should do, and sorry for the massive book there, I'm the next 50 shades of grey! Hahaha.. Thanks!!

18 M UK and im bisexual, not out of the closet and ive never done anything with a guy just i am attracted to them, i only realised this recently and there is this guy in my group of friends that i only recently started talking to more the quite while and i always thought he was bi, just the way he looks at me and acts around me, he always gets me to pretend to **** him as a joke of mocking people and he flirts with me it probably isn't flirting but i think it is, i could be wrong! and also people i know think he is gay but im not sure weather to listen to people. and basically i really like him and i was wondering for other people opinions on this is he gay/interested or just being a "lad" and haven fun? Thanks :)

Im 17 male from UK and im an average guy i always used to have confidence not cocky but just never used to care what people think of me , but that completely turned around now i have no confidence at all, i get embarrassed of myself in big crowds i think people are judging me 24/7. it not that i have no friends because i do have a good group of friends males and females i dont have a clue why i lost confidence and i hate going places now because i would either get embarrassed of myself been there and what people are thinking? what is this and why did i lose so much confidence in a short time? if someone knows how to solve this please help because its really taken alot from my social life and i was one sociable chap!

I asked a question like this before but now its different, when people say to me "you're going red i automatically turn red like an embarrassed red? and if i am in a crowd and i say to myself il probably go red i do and its so annoying cause its noticeable? why is this its so strange?

Some people say that when you make eye contact for a while with someone they usually are attracted to you like for example if i look at a guy and we catch eyes and just look at each other for ages like you get a feeling? i don't know its confusing? has this ever happened you and you've felt (chemistry)?

well okay there is this guy i will make the long story short he is a mutual friend he always looks at me and makes gay remarks like "remember you kissed me when you where drunk in front of your GF" and "you owe me a kiss" and just flirty? hes like 3 years older than me im 17. bi (closet) and i said to him your gay and he said he knows he is and all that. but i just still think he is joking? But now he is dating my friend (girl) and me and him always used to make eye contact and now it hardly ever. he also asks about me like where am i if im not there and gets people to get me. so i really dont know he is so confusing? what should i do? is this his personality or is he just playing? OR is it just because he dosen't know what he wants himself? Help thanks :)

okay so under my arm pits i have like this white stuff on my arm pit hair and its weird? it wont come off and every-time i show its still wont? and its not because im dirty because i always shower? i don't know what it is and it looks ugly? help? thanks(:

i have like two questions like this but i hate them being long and i cant fit everything in but there is this boy i know and im bi-curious i think im bi not sure yet... but this boy is hot and im 17 he is like 2 or 3 years older? and i hve a girlfriend and he seems to flirt with me and he said in front of my girlfriend you know hes gay with me and everything? is he doing this to try and get me or is he just being a ****? we seem to always catch each others eyes and you can definitely feel something? i don't know if he is gay or not but he seems it a lot? so what do yous think i should do as well? Confront him or just play along to see how fa he goes with the whole thing?

i asked a question like this yesterday and i just wanted a lot of people opinions because i might just be thinking this or just might be the way he is? im 17 male well there is this boy i know he is like 2 or 3 years older than em and basically i think he is gay/bi because if he was straight he would keep bringing up gay topics and everything he is friends with my sisters bf so he is around often and from day one he has called me gay and asked me have i any men on the go? so i always reply nope none et and joke around im in the closet btw? and im bi? anyway its like he is interested in me i was at a party he was at lastnight and we kept catching eachothers eyes? and you could feel the vibes definately and in the bathroom i asked him why he thinks im gay i dodt go mad i was joken around too? and he replied because im gay and i said yeah i know you are and he said no i really am? and tonight out he kept saying we will go on a man hunt together and we wer playing have you ever and he says dont say you've not kissed a boy because you have and laughed he seems flirty? so is he gay or just taking the piss? i will admit im kinda starting to like him he is unbelievably hot! help please its confusing me! Thanks..

Im 17 male Bi-Curious/Bi and well my sister has a boyfriend and his friend does be around sometimes, i would say hello to the boy if i seen him and chat like we are friendly but from day one i met him he always called me gay, i laughed as im that kinda person i can take a joke and just laugh it off, so then he is always like so hows the men and all and im like yeah great you? and he says nope none but i take this as a joke you know. When he found out i had a gf he was like to me "what are you at" and i just replied awh i dont know just being joken as always. Then he would tell me to join football so i can get more lads and i played along saying thats a good idea i will do that, and then one night i was out i seen him and the next morning he was like so was that boy a good kisser i said oh yeah great as a joke i obviously didnt kiss anyone he was just joking but recently im starting to get these vibes from him that he is gay or bi? he is really goodlooking too he is 3 years older than me and he just always seems to bring up "gay" sometimes when you say a joke it wares off but he just keeps saying it? does this mean he is gay and trying to hint to me or just being funny? thanks (: I am in the closet by the way! so its not like anyone knows im bi? and yes i do like him a bit? :S

thanks for any help people! :)

Okay well im 17 (male) and have had a girlfriend for a month now and we haven't falling out once and as well with hat i really like her she really likes me but it just. im scared in case she will go off me because i am not "manly" enough i respect people so much and i dont fight i dont believe in fighting and i dont argue i just like to have fun and mess around but its always seems to back fire on me like me ex who cheated i thought its because im not being strict enough too? i am the most understanding person you could meet after all what my ex done to me this past 2 years over and over again i forgave her and we are so close now. but i am not one bit jealous i hate jealousy and i am thinking then its giving my girlfriend a chance to cheat as she knows i dont be suspicious? should i manly up like start being protective and tbh arrogant. or just leave it the way i am? Same with girls i have friends who are girls and i respect all girls when girls are drunk i would tell them if they are showing to much (for their own good) i do enj it but it would be disrespectful if i didnt tell them? i would like your opinions thanks (:

Okay so today in school it was so funny two girls where only messing about calling names but one girl got a really good comeback and i shouted out from the computer out of nowhere "Whos The Biatch Now" was so funny because im random like that and i got the phrase from a movie but im not sure where from i thought it was white chicks but i dont know HELP! please and thank you! (: