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Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 9 years ago

Why guys cant believe that girls can have high sex drives too?

Im 18 andi am always horny and its not my fault.i m always wet down there. I could be doing anything like hanging out with my friends, shopping at the grocery but if I see an attractive guy ill immediately get aroused. If im alone with.a guy in a room for a while ill think of sex or making out with him and its not even intentional... I usually get a little sweaty and tingly around almost any guy thats attractive. once I was hanging out with a guy I liked and out of the blue we had sex and it was awkward after because I wasnt even planning on doing it , it was the heat of the moment thing. Even the smell or touch of my ex boyfriend made my mind go wild. I usually have the higher sex drive in thhe relationship and some guys think something is wrong with me or im slutty. Oh its ok to say guys are horn dogs and its biological but when a girl is like that its not normal and shes a slut

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  • Bobo
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    As a guy, I would prefer a girl with a high sex drive. It is normal, but it appears to be the exception rather than the rule.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    How about you talk to him about it property without arguing. Try tell him that you love him and want him. Why don't you send him dirty texts throughout the day or pics so that when he sees you he will be in the mood. Get into some sexy lingerie next time he says he is too tired and offer him a massage. Pretend that this is just your everyday thing and try turn him on. Sometimes though guys who are reluctant ro sex may be interested in somebody else. Don't worry though. Maybe he is just enjoying getting to know you as he works far away. Love is a strong thing and sex is important in every relationship. Try get him in the mood a bit more or spice up our sex life. Sometimes people have higher sex drives than others and you should be proud of this. Any guy in the right mind would be lucky to have a girl like you....don't worry.

  • 9 years ago

    Give it a few more years, and if things does not get better you may want to see your doctor. No, I don't think it is your fault either! I once known of a woman that worked for an insurance agency,she wore skirts or dresses everyday to work. The reason for this is because, she was constantly aroused. She could not have anything even close to her private areas without having an orgasm! If she wore pants,she would have to wear a maxi pad to keep the moisture from showing! & walking with pants on was really unbearable! So, wearing skirts or dresses with no panties was her only option for a long while. Her hormonal imbalance was what was causing this problem. I think she finally found a doctor that prescribed her some medicine that helped her a bit but, wasn't a cure. Your sex drive will either increase even more as you get older or, it could decrease no almost nothing. Hopefully you will level out to some kind of normalcy in the future.

    Source(s): Veteran survivor of nymphomania!
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You are so very normal for both you age and stage of life. A healthy young woman should be continually horny and sexual but most suppress this part of themselves. I have been fortunate enough to have know women who are truly sexual and truth be told an aroused women is an awesome thing. The capacity of a woman like yourself to experience and enjoy sexual pleasure is beyond most people comprehension so they blame the woman - she must be a slut or there must be something wrong with them but a guy who is this way is a stud. It is BS. I have massaged enough women to known that most are far more sexual than the men in their lives realize - but the men treat them like dirt and then think their women are sexually cold and unresponsive

    I am delighted to see you embrace your sexuality - do not allow anyone to tell you what you must be or do - if you feel you sexual response is too strong get a testosterone level drawn - this hormone causes the sex drive in both men and women

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    That's normal at 18. When you get into to your 20s things might dwindle a bit like they did with me.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Teenage males have been brainwashed into thinking only guys want sex.

    After 20 it's rare to see anyone with that illusion.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Guys DO know that girls can have high sex drives too, however, we also know that most girls do not have high sex drives.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    because women don't like sex

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    lol that's so hot, I want to meet girls like you haha ;)

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