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How to spice up love life?

I really wanna be able to turn my bf on like I used to when we first were together...I always try to touch him when we cuddled...I'm always turned on by him for no reason but he admitted that I just don't really turn him on much anymore because I try to touch him too much...he says nothing is exciting anymore but I am attractive to him....please help me idk what to do??? I wanna keep his interest

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  • 9 years ago
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    I am not sure how old you are, or if he is your first boyfriend or how long you have been with him. You sound like you love him a lot, and that you just crave the attention off him like the old days.

    When you first start seeing each other, there are the butterflies and the hoping and wanting of each other and then that fades and what you are left with is what I call the real love. That's when you then move onto the proper finding out what you're both like.

    To spice it up, let him come and chase you a bit, try and I know this is hard, but play a little hard to get, stop doing what you are doing and do something different, because what you are doing now, is not working.

    Try to remember the you, before you got with him, do you have any hobbies you want to restart again, have you any friends you want to see once a week, go to the gym, show him that you are as interesting now as you were when you got together.

    Dont get angry with him, just go out and be you again, and then you will have things to talk about when you see him and he will see the sparkle back into your eyes, instead of him probably feeling that he is responsable for your happiness when in fact he isnt.

    Good luck

  • 9 years ago

    go in to the woods camping and play hide and seek

    you have to get out in nature were the bunny's and squirrels are making love

    all so play the game of princes or madden and he is the prince or the traveler

    and let him find you in a barn or on a pile of hay

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    Source(s): the voy
  • 9 years ago

    Hi, It s very uncomfortable ! right? No, make ur mind be strong.

    love is love where have no distance, age, nationality, religion or anything.

    Try to love by mind, must not by sex or beauty. Take care.

  • 9 years ago

    Use psyshology ,,,if nothing works try the opposit. or may be you verbally , emotionally abused him ,,as well as you are not sensetive to his needs. , as well as not listenning emotionally. Study his body language ( it differs from one culture to another culture ) However none verbal clues are the best ( body language ) 90 % language are spoken through body language.

    Source(s): personal experiense
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  • 9 years ago

    try dressing up in a schoolgirl outfit...very short skirt..preferably plaid with thigh high stocking..white of course..white top. if that dont do it..come see me.

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    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Tease him. You're too needy.

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