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Dating two girls at once, is it wrong?
Is it wrong? here is my story I was recently in love with my best friend which is a girl and im a guy, she doesn't have any feelings for me and after chasing her for 6 months I decided I cant deal with it anymore and try my best to move on. I started talking to girls more in my classes and asked out these girls that always sit next to me and look at me when I look away(they are in separate classes) and they both said yes and gave me their numbers. I kind feel like I don't want to put all my eggs into one basket so to speak, is it ok if i date them both for awhile and choose which one I like best? or is that wrong of me to do?, I don't want to be in the position i was in with my best friend I want to be in control of my life and have multiple options but at the same time I don't want to be a cheater/player
im 21 in college
17 Answers
- JaneLv 45 years ago
Answer this first: Is it wrong to make out with your mother? If your answer is yes, then you're not FULLY a man-whore. But, if you don't see my point, I'll make it clear. Yes, it IS wrong to date two girls at once, because if either finds out, you'll get slapped in the face, kicked in the balls, and dumped. I mean, how would you feel if you found out one of those girls has another boyfriend? And that she's cheating on you?
- Ok...Lv 79 years ago
Yes, I date more than one guy at a time. (I am a girl) Because that's what dating is for, you even said it yourself: "....date them both for awhile and choose which one I like best..."
But I will warn you: NOTHING physical. That's when it wills start to get VERY complicated for you, because females will not take kindly to that... it's not in their nature.
Their nature is for ATTACHMENT, and after the "Deed" they are HARD wired for attachment. Which is funny because that's the opposite of what males are hard wired for... well the nookie of course, but detaching so that they can spread their "eggs" into other baskets... Good luck! ;)
- Anonymous9 years ago
No, dating is getting to know someone, it's ok to get to know more then one person at a time. It's not official until you're boyfriend/girlfriend&then it would be cheating. But I'd make the choice soon before one gets too attached and u like the other one more or something.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
You will get ****** by those two girls.
Those two girls will talk to each other and find out you been dating them both, then you would lose both of them. Also while you are holding hands with one of the girl and happen to meet that other girl, screwed.
I think the best thing to do is dfate one of those girls, and become a friend with the other girl.
If you dislike the girl you are dating, hey you can always switch your friendship with the other girl to a dating relationship.
- EpiphanyLv 69 years ago
No, as long as your upfront and honest about it, and dont have unrealistic expectations of them not doing the same thing. You dont meet someone and then all of a sudden you are in a relationship, that not how it works in the real world. As long you tell them that you are seeing other people as well, shouldn't be a problem.
- 9 years ago
It's not a great plan because one of them, that you don't end up dating, will be ripped. But if you are doing it for yourself and are unsure, I mean I wouldn't really look at you to be a player.. I have seen many guys do it before.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Bro as long as it's just dating its fine. if you decide to get in a relationship with one then you should just choose that one and let the other one go.
- DeringLv 69 years ago
it is absolutely okay so long as you are honest with both of them about the other one. it may be easier to call the one you think you would like better and focus on one relationship at a time.
- Anonymous9 years ago
No. You are in high school, you will most likely not marry any of these girls.