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this boy told me he loves me...? help?

this guy that i was dating told me he loved me on sunday, and tuesday i broke up with him because i wasnt ready for that. I found out later that he was extremely hurt by me breaking up with him after he told me he loved me, and I was devastated. I told him a couple days later that I want to date him, but that it was really intense for me to hear that. He's told me that it's up to me now what happens, but he said he's really hurt by it. What should i do? He hasn't texted me but I want him to know that I still like him and want to date him. Should I text him and tell him that i'm sorry?

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    Oh wow he sounds desperate. Just leave, I mean if he's a baby now just imagine how he is going to in in a relationship. Probably clingy.

  • Erika
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    First off in case you love him you're going to now not name him boy. you assert my boyfriend or massive different. Then you ought to respect that the man is scum if he stated he adored you and didn't imply it. Just respect the truth that for the primary time a person believes in you and loves the whole thing there may be approximately you. There is that this humorous quote from the 2001 movie The Brothers Staring Shemar Moore and Morris Chestnut, while one of the crucial moms (Played through Jenifer Lewis) is speakme to all of the better halves and girlfriends and tells them "You recognise while a person loves you while he allows you to have his final chook wing". The extra I regardless that approximately it the extra it made due to the fact that if the your Boy Friend appears at you with ardour, does not brain retaining your hand in public, or has an overly unemotional household and had the braveness to mention I Love You, then he approach it. RELAX and Enjoy you're keen on. Now the query is do you're keen on him... in view that it does take plenty of vigour and bravado to confess some thing like that. Love him with all you center and believe him. CONGRATS to your love. LATEZ

  • 9 years ago

    Don't be sorry. If you're not ready to take that extra step in your relationship then you shouldn't have to. I would tell him that you still like him and you do want to be with him, you appreciate that he loves you, but at this point in time you're not ready to move that fast in your relationship.

    If you say you're sorry, get into a relationsjip that you're not ready to, or move faster than you would like than you're only going to end up miserable and eventually unhappy with yourself.

    Only take steps that YOU are ready to, NOT him. && If he says that he wants to move faster than you OR you two have different views of your relationship then tell him that you still like him, but right now you're not ready to be in a relationhip with him. Tell him you want to break up for now, but not for forever.

    Your happiness and well being comes first in ANY kind of relationship. Wether it be a love relationship, a friendship, or a relationship with a family member. ALWAYS make sure your happiness comes first.

    && I don't know what he treats you like, but NEVER stay with a guy that is too controling, pushy, or mean! I know it seems like you will never get over him but YOU WILL! I promise! If you need any help, go ahead and email me (veronicarowe94@ymail.com) && I will help you with anything you need!

    Boys can be tricky subjects, and sometimes a mom or a friend isn't always the best people to talk to. So, if you need me go ahead & send me an email. I'm here!

  • 9 years ago

    Text or call him and tell him that you do like him a lot but you think it was to soon to tell you that he loved you and that you still want to date him but you don't want him to move to fast. Hope I helped(:

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  • 9 years ago

    I think you should ask him on a romantic date but not to romantic, then tell him that you want to get back together , but you dont want to get that serious to quickly. Good luck.

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