How is it fair that I'm persecuted in this way for how I love?

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Why is it fair that people who spam message and won't give up on someone are persecuted for following their heart after society tells them to follow their heart?

 I'm not desperate, I could get many different girls, I don't have issues, the only issue I have is the girl I love stopped talking to me and didn't give me good enough reason relative to how much I'm worth and how much I was worth to her.

 If I'm insane, or have issues because I'm fighting for something I believe in, while not harming anyone, then there's something wrong with society. 

 P.S. This wasn't one date, this was a year of hope and possibility and love that reminded me what it was like to feel, it was a one in a billion alignment of values, ambitions and dreams, and she threw me away for no reason, and she stays away simply because 'I message too much'.

 How on earth can I be judged for that beyond everything I am?

Izzy ♥ · Accepted Answer

There is nothing better than a guys that knows how to treat a girl with such love and respect. I admire that and guys like that are hard to find. But maybe it was moving too fast for her. From what she said about "messaging too much" it sounds like she would like some space. This might not be the girl for you - it may feel like it now because you are so in love with her.. But if you step back for a bit, someone else that truly appreciates you will walk into your life.

ohsowhatever · Answer

Because you were annoying her with text messages, she probably thought you were too clingy

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How is it fair that I'm persecuted in this way for how I love?

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