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When is the right time to break up with him?

The fire is gone. He's always away. I don't even know him anymore. He's cold as ice.

I guess i have all the reasons to quit. God knows how i adore this man but, i came to realize that

i should love myself first. I don't deserve being left alone. I just don't know what to say. How will i start the conversation?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Hmm.. the last boyfriend I broke up with always wanted to fight. So I just waited until he started another fight and I said "I'm leaving you."

    If you don't really see or talk to this guy, maybe it won't be so hard. You said he's cold as ice? Well, the next time you're talking to him, just mention that you are really feeling a distance between the two of you and ask him if he wants to move on. (Then you kind of leave it in his hands).

    If he wants to work on it but you really don't, then you can tell him that you just think it's best if you part ways, and list some reasons why you'll both be better off.

    I wish I could be more helpful. I believe in just being blunt and honest.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Immediately

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    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    You only get one chance at life (unless you are one of those nutcases that believes in reincarnation) so don't spend it worrying about telling someone who obviously doesn't care enough about you to leave you alone all the time that its over.

    That's my advice for what its worth anyways.

  • 9 years ago

    Hi Penny, I wuz told by older relationship (elders) dey say u love dat person so much dat u r willing to to work out n der isn't breaking up n also let him kno how u feelin

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  • 9 years ago

    Devorce is not the sollution ok...It makes things worse...Love him/her and let him/her know that you are the only one that care about him/her...Ohhh what the ******* just divorce you stupids

    Source(s): Go to hell
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