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What does it mean if a girl does this??!!?

Hi,

I really like this girl but she confuses me. Whenever i am around her and we are in a group of friends (4 or more) she is really mean to me. But when it is just her, another person and me or just her and me, she is really nice to me (we have a joke and things). She shares secrets (deep secrets and says not to share them) and things but i dunno if thats just a comfort thing. What should i do? Cause i kinda like her (alot). Also what does it mean if she does this? (btw, she says she is joking about being mean to me when i ask her, when we are just talking (just the two of us)

please help

Cheers

Tom

Update:

So if she is embarrassed to tell her friends does this mean she thinks her friends will take the pee out of her for going out with me? So say if she thinks her friends will think she is mad for it? Say if she thinks i'm ugly but still likes me but doesn't want her friends to know?

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  • 9 years ago
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    When she is around her friends, she could be trying to impress them and show off by being mean to you, or she could be making her friends believe she doesn't like you, just because she doesn't want them to know she likes you!!!

    Ask her out and see what she says, but only when she's alone, if she says no, just laugh it off and say you were joking anyway!!

    Good Luck!! :)

  • Hey dude, I know the feeling. That is going on between me and this other guy..Messing around=she likes you. Secrets=she trusts you. If she is is herself, around you, and you are with her...you guys are perfect.. I say...as the days progress..get closer towards her, not to where she sees you as her friend, like brother, but move, a little quick, grab her around the waist playfully, start a little game with her! I wish I could do this stuff with the guy I reallly like! GOOD LUCK BUD!

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe she doesn't want other people to know she likes you. I would say she likes you, and suggest you ask her out. I do that with people (just friends in general), sometimes in groups I'm kinda mean, but just one on one I'm nice.

    Hope this helps and good luck!

    -Dan

  • 9 years ago

    when a girl is mean to a boy its mostly because they like you or just plane hate you. but she seems to like you alot if she shares deep secrets it means she trusts you so if you did want to date her just go for it ask her who she likes and say names then just say yours she might not talk its cause she does tat all i have to say and (btw) means (by the way).

    Source(s): im a girl i would know thats stuff
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  • 9 years ago

    shes teasing you..its sick and i would run from this person because imagine if u two were in a relationship how it would be? she would wear the pants and treat u like nothing....y would u want to be with someone that treats u that way? she might be playing around but she is still being mean...

  • 9 years ago

    It means that she's shy and embarrassed about you around her friends, most likely because she likes you too. And she's embarrassed about you because she is probably thinking that her friends will think bad of that, like wonder why she likes you but that's normal in most everyone. best of luck.

  • 9 years ago

    she likes you (alot). she is shy and when some girls are mean for no reason, they have a secret crush. Get along and don't be afraid to tell her if she is embarassed by you, tell her you like her and if she responds positive, let magic do its work

    Source(s): idk knew a guy -_-
  • 9 years ago

    You'd better watch out, girls like that are usually the ones who end up stalking you and burning down your house and loved ones, not before defecating in your drawers that is, I know.

    Source(s): Personal Experiences.
  • 9 years ago

    This is quality :'),

    I know this girl, and she shes not this type :L,

    Thanks for your kind words for my brother here everyone!! but sadly they are wrong, she jsut plain hates him :L ahah

    Mike T

  • 9 years ago

    i think she likes you, but shes to embarresed to admit it to you in front of others xx

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