My parents won't leave me alone and controls my life?

Rebel from her. You need to take risks and have fun. Man if my mum was like that I wouldn't bloody come home. I'd stay late after school and when she goes off at me I wouldnt care cos it would be the same as any other time I did the right thing

You only have four more years of this and then you can move out. Except for the slapping which is humiliatiing, I see it a different way since I know that being a parent is difficult. She is worrried you will not get enough sleep if you keep your phone. Sleep is crucial at your age and most teens do not get enough. She is worried something will happen to you so realize that her intentions are good when she changed password.When you go to get a job, prospective employers look at your facebook page. If they see a fight they will not hire you. If you want to move away from your mom, now is the time to start working on your career since you will need a paycheck to pay for your apartment.

Try to figure out a way to calmly and in a mature manner discuss it with her. Take a week or two and list the things you do for her ( just as you have here for example cleaning) and then list what you dont do wrong ( drugs) then list you would like to do ( not have to endure slapping). Invite your father to listen if you like. Make it at an offsite if possible ( in other words in a park or a starbucks or somewhere neutral that is not her territory. It will be more monumental that way. ) and ask her beforehand if you could please make an appointment to meet with her. Dont tellher if she asks ahead of time what it is about since she will end up getting mad and not listening as she does housework. It has to be something different and hopefully out of the house. You write at the end your parents ( both) dont respect you but then earlier you write that even your father disagrees? So maybe straighten that out in your mind first. I am very sorry for you but you are quite young and someday you will understand how hard it is to be a parent. But she should NOT slap you.

Wow this is a hard one. It is probably that your mum knows that one day you will leave and she doesn't know how to handle it. But for the paying for your own clothes, everyone does that. Come on you did not say any good things about her. Hasn't there ever been a time when she supported you, helped you in anyway? Honestly, there are those moments where you to have bonded. You did not say you had any problem with your dad, maybe you could ask him to talk to her. And for the report card she probably was just looking at those statistics about how countries are doing better then America, everyone gets paranoid after reading those.

Dear Emzaa;

Your a great kid and many parents would love to have you as their child, it's a shame your mother is treating like this, it's really sad.

Now here's a possible reason, she may be under stress, like not being intimate enough with your dad, or it could be money problems, at any rate since your 14, outside of talking to your dad and trying to find a solution, which he may have, I can't say much that's going to help. Aside from just don't talk back, since that will only make things worse.

You might try asking your mother what's troubling her, because something sure is, this is just not normal behavior.

i trust undesirable on your relatives and for you. As on your sister i'm uncertain on how i trust. She had a chance for a fantastic life she blew it. She had fairly some possibilities like even as she stayed which includes your dad and she grew to grow to be undesirable back. She basically would not look mentally reliable to me. i don't recognize of everybody that ought to take all this abuse and nevertheless be there. After the first time she changed into damage she must have basically left yet no she stayed. i don't recognize in case your sister must be helped or no longer. i don't recognize if she needs help. She appears to be like playing this soreness. She even gave up her relatives for the soreness. i recognize that someone ought to document this to the police and to a toddler care corporation. She ought to no longer save that child, she isn't able to raising a toddler she will't guard herself. i do not imagine that any individuals of her relatives ought to guard the toddler both because she will do some thing in her ability to scouse borrow it away or to damage it to spite all of you. i don't recognize what else to assert to this. i don't recognize a thanks to assist your sister and prefer you I dislike the bf and that i imagine he must be thrown in detention center and throw away the major.

Be as bad as you can. What's the worst she can do? If she takes things from you, take them back. If she slaps you, threaten to call social services for child abuse. Do everything to show her who's boss!

Sounds like you have an excellent mother and you should be grateful she cares so much!