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I am 9 weeks pregnant, starting to gain a little, delaying hair appointment just to wait till 3 months to be safe so not looking of feeling sexy right now. My husband has been very supportive and this was a planned pregnancy. All until tonight when he said to me that he wanted to go out for drinks with a woman he use to work with, but can't go because i wont let him. He tried to pull the guilt on to me on something I know for sure he wouldn't except me doing. All because I am pregnant, I feel that he has the power in the relationship and is trying to upset me. He always told me that males and females can't be plutonic friends and he is contradicting himself. I feel hurt that he already knew how I felt about being alone with the kids especially while he has drinks with another lady. I like drinking myself and the sacrifices that we make for a healthy baby just gets me so mad when i try to do the right thing and i am so stressed out now i feel like drinking so badly.

Update:

Am I over reacting? I have never met this woman. I don't know anything about her.

Update 2:

No he works in the city so he was going to catch up with her straight from work. I can't go as i have the kids with me. I didn't get invited. He has done this once before too, as he had tickets to a tennis match from work, that I couldn't make so he asked his boss to invite a lady co worker as his partner there. His boss told him to take his partner not a lady from work. (not the same lady as far as i know)

Fate · Accepted Answer

You are over reacting. Let him go, seriously, you're being VERY bitchy.

Coco Bee · Answer

I don't think you're over reacting at all! This is especially rude of him since you don't know her. If he must go, invite yourself along, just drink sprite or something and enjoy yourself. If you can't go then he shouldn't either. I don't know about you but I feel extra emotional now that I am pregnant and you probably are, too, he should respect that.

Chazzie · Answer

why Don t you ask him to invite the lady to your house since you are unable to go out that way you can all enjoy a social evening and you get to keep an eye on him. Dont make it sound like a control thing and if he insists on taking the lady out alone then you can question him

Anonymous · Answer

Umm... I would not allow my husband to go out to get drinks with a woman I never met.I'm 3 months pregnant. Tell him not to come home then. Also, you can't not look sexy bc you are pregnant. Put on some sexy clothes even if you're not feeling sexy... playing dress up by yourself for a hours will boost your confidence again

PS: did he invite you out? YOu should go with them. You can still have fun and not drink

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