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MATURE CHRISTIANS ONLY!?

I want to challenge some believers thinking here and I want you to challenge mine.WHEN YOU RESPOND TO MY QUESTIONS USE SCRIPTURE PLEASE. The bible paint God as a loving God and some how a part of me believes this however..there are parts of me that believes that He dont and this is where the challenging your EXPERIENCE or Faith comes in. The bible teaches that we should practice patience and longsuffering..ok I stink at that but Im a new believer I want to hear from God more than anything! however my history with God shows that Im a backslider and I dont keep my word.Other wise call me lukewarm if you will. I dont have a good church home either :(

My problem is this I want a christian home I have kids and married to a man whom I thought was willing to work with me to achieve just that. Turns out this guy has anger issues and he is causing me a great deal of stress and anxiety.

Question 1:Why does God allow suffering for HIS GLORY? (why does everything have to involve God? People make it seem as if he have our best interest at heart? How so?

Question 2:Along the lines of marriage,divorce,and seperation God explains how he hates divorce and I feel like im trapped and I feel like if I seperate God might be mad. I dont want him mad at me I have done enough already.Can someone please clarify what God truely mean about marriage and seperation or divorce? Does God really want to us to suffer in a horrible relationship? Are christians allowed to seperate? what if that spouse isnt filing his/her role do we still have to wait????

Question 3: Have you ever felt mad or bitter toward God for anything? I do mean anything

Question 4: How long did it take for you to fully develop a relationship with God? How did you feel?

Question 5: How did you know where to start?when praying was you nervous?

I'm hoping the response will keep my spirits lifted. Im down and out Im super mad at God only because a dumb decision I made and I didnt know how deeply God felt about it.Now that I know Im grieving over my decision. I thought my actions was honoring God now I regret that decision. I want to concentrate on Someone Bigger and leave this whole marriage thing alone.Too painful to think about.Some advice on being a TRUE CHRISTIAN IS MOST NEEDED EVEN BOOKS that will help that has helped you along the way THANK YOU ALL IN ADVANCE :)

Update:

please dont come to my question talking about God aint real I dont need your negativity and your ignorance. Or should I have mature adults only some of you act like rebellous little kids.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    They won't get past the title on this one :(

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    I have plenty of scriptures to provide but it is limited on this forum & also because your question is so massive that my space for reply would be even more limited.

    Please email me.

    kjv1611@hotmail.com

    King James Version Bible

    John Chapter 8

    31. Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, [then] are ye my disciples indeed;

    32. And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

  • 9 years ago

    OK so I ain't a Christian but I would encourage you to see about divorce if the anger issues are that bad.

    Your God doesn't want you to suffer. When I was in church I knew many good people who were divorced. Even the pastor at one church had been divorced because he made a silly decision.

    From what I understand God forgives you & wants to see you happy.

    I think if you should decide to marry again that you should pray for guidance and not make the decision lightly.

    Source(s): Former Christian
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Ok this is a complicated question. I will do my best because it seems to me the questions are related to instability.

    A new Christians instability comes from not knowing or studying the word of God. Interestingly that instability is often a positive thing because it causes you to want to understand more.

    Understanding will come when you study the word of God and ask him for a revelation of truth in the knowledge of him (Just like Paul did) with understanding comes stability. And that's what you need because that's where your answers come from.

    Remember this though. You wont have perfection now. That's why we need Christ. IN CHRIST. That's the key. You must be in Christ, he is like the Ark in the Bible.

    There are many books about books about books.

    Grace to you.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    1- Exactly whos glory should we strive for? When Gods glory is given to Him, glory will be returned to us. 1 corinthians 10:31

    2- 1 corinthians 7 12-14

    3- Yes. EVERYONE has. How can we be in a relationship that is personal and meaningful without feeling emotions? Psalm 22. When we present our anger properly it actually shows honor to Jehovah. Staying angry is the problem. Use it as a stepping stone of faith.

    4-I came to believe at age 25. I am STILL developing a relationship with Him. I feel free.

    5-To be honest, I sometimes find it difficult to pray. I dont know what to say or how to express myself. When this happens, I just remain silent and "listen". God is always with us whether we are angry, sad, happy, joyful, sick, healthy......it doesnt matter. Let what has happened go. Ask for forgiveness and move on because He will forget your transgressions. Isaiah 43:25 God Bless

    Source(s): Jesus saves
  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    "Mature Christians" haha this guy's trolling...

  • Green
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    New International Version (©1984)

    Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.(mattew 5:10)

    dont you want to be recognized and rewarded by God?

    1) what i said up there, God created everyone to glorify him, but satan didnt like that idea and we all have free will and he is our problem. if you get to heaven, you will regret anything negative you felt or said to God because he is so awesome.

    2)God hates adultry. when a wife or husband cheats on their spouse, they can get divorced. only until one of them dies can the other get married too someone else.

    3)unfortunatly when i was immature and ignorant about him

    4) when i learned about him. like dirt.

    5) forgiveness, no, he knows everything already

    you need to read about Job. job had a problem with pride and it souds like you do too. REPENT.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    SHOUTING words doesn't make them more true. it just makes you seem hysterical.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    1. We have free will (thank Adam and Eve), God doesnt allow suffering people chose to inflict it

    2. Divorce depends on your demonination (King Henry created the church of England so he didnt have to keep killing his wives after they gave birth to girls, which was his fault not theirs)

    3. Im sorry Im not christian but have read the bible and love history

    But have you ever heard the expression "God helps those that help themselves" ?

    I think this means that you need to help yourself here. You need to ask are you happy?

    Im not saying a relationship with God wont make you happy but staying with your husband may make you very unhappy.

    Also your children learn from their enviroment. Do you want them to learn from their father that its ok to be angery and act the way he does? Its ok for him to make you feel the way you do? And you need to think do my children feel SAFE in this home.

  • samuel
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    You need some maturity to brief question

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    God is imaginary.

    Remember that, as it's 100% true.

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