From Best Answer to Blocked, Only trying to help Tym...?

"Why do you feel so sorry for yourself all the time Tym? And why are you crying for attention on the Internet where it's not guna make the blindest bit of difference in your life? "

Yea, Blatantly insulting me is the brightest way of "Helping". I'm sorry, is your term of "Helping" different from mine. I asked a question, I didn't ask to be insulting. When have I done something on here that even technically deserved what you said there? Do I state my life isn't 100% Chipper & Blue birds well shocking yea I do, cause it's my life. I would know, If you read & Answered the question I was asking a question. Forgive me if I came off as whining over the internet, but that kinda is my only source of info and or help.

Noted part 9: *Sighs* I don't know, I guess I got into major Mopey Tym Misery again. Forgive me, I completely forgot. I just have a lot on my mind twenty-four seven, it's really bothersome. I just wish I had, I don't know actually. *Shrugs* Forgive me, Ze Block has been lifted.

Noted part 10: @ ABetterFate: That's not what I do whatsoever, that is simple your perspective of what I do and I can tell you. You are dead wrong...

I try to do that but He's a fighter, he'll latch on and won't let go. I know I need a job, I know I should go to college for something to give me other things to do. But I need a reference, which I don't have. I don't have many interests, I like Writing but I suck at it so what would be the point of spending money on college for it?

Hold on Delete it? Um... not to sound greedy but shouldn't the person you Called out get the best answer?

James don't feel bad.

Tym has been doing this for as long as I can remember months and actually I can remember similar complaints back to the beginning of last year at least.

Someone who only reaches out to people who can never REALLY help them is simply grabbing for attention and sympathy without ever wanting to find a solution or help themselves.

Feeling sorry for yourself in short bursts shows you are progressing through something and its part of a process we all follow.

Doing it longterm is a form of paralysis that only Tym can break when he is ready to do something about it. He could choose therapy, medication, websites that could help, phone services but he chooses instead to do nothing apart from wallow and garner sympathy.

If he reached out to professionals or people who were there specifically to help people in his situation that would be great. He chooses not to.

If someone is blunt and tells him exactly what they see and what he is actually doing he cuts them off. He only wants to hear what he wants to hear.

@Tym Translation? When people write can't they mean won't. You refuse to seek or accept help. So reconcile yourself to that and stop trying to drag other people into your mess. The internet can offer you many tools and your refusal to accept medication to even give you a window of time to find relief is another way for you to let yourself continue to wallow in your own self pity.

Tym and James, the best way to settle this thing is to reconcile.

Nothing would lose if you did it, indeed, there would be good effects.

Guys, we are old enough. :)

That's the best way I think.

What do you think?

Some people just do not have a sense of humor, don't give up!