just found he got 3 more kids pls help?

i think he was afraid of loosing you. k i know it hurts like hell down there but you have to try to forgive him.he made you happy for that 8 years just think of all the fun you guys had and what there install for you now that the secret is out yo!!!!!!!you need to work on it try to trust again. you need to give this situation that you in over to GOD so that he can work on this and you need to remember GOD needs all the pisces to solve your problem if he love you that much he will tell you everything,and if you Love him that much than im sure that you can forgive him. As my mom always says we all human we all make mistakes that how we learn, and that how it makes us stronger

That's a huge secret not to tell you after 8 years. I take it he's never paid child support for these other 3 children, which a testament to his character. You can forgive him, but you should definitely find out what other skeletons are in his closet. After 8 years together you should know everything about each other.

So you want to up and leave the man because he have 3 other kids by his previous relateship that he is no longer in? I can understand you might be piss off by learning this but he is not in a relateship with person no more and is now with you, why? I mean ok i can understand why you up set but would you weather him tell you the truth or lie to you and go be hide your back a help take care of his children. Ok the now know the man has a past (3 children) but i weather him tell me the truth and see him take care of his kids. If you can't handle that then i guess you really don't care for him because he have 3 children by his ex.

Is he a different person than he was just before you knew about his children? Is he devoted to you and your kids? Forgive him. Then figure out how he can give of his time and money to his other children, the brothers and sisters of your children. Your family just got a lot larger...hope you have a big heart.

If it's not interfering with your present relationship I'd say forgive him, but try to find out why he didn't tell you, just for your peace of mind.

It depends if you can personally forgive him and move forward. Seek counseling maybe from your church.

he should have told you years ago -__-'' ... i would beat the **** outta him and say 'why the hell didnt you tell me *****' :P