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Anonymous asked in Politics & GovernmentImmigration · 9 years ago

immigration and invitations from Pakistan?

hi!

I am engaged with pakistani man and we expecting a baby.

him has 2children in Pakistan.

However, one of my friend said that after he will marry me and get visa then he will bring his family from Pakistan to UK (I am ok with children but not about his ex wife)!!!

SO, my question is :" Does actually it is possible? because how much I am doing research about immigration, if him will have one family in UK he will not be able to invite his family from Pakistan!

how do you think?? is that is possible?? If that is possible, then I prefer be single mum, not let that he is using me just to invite his family here, bec I love him and dont want to share him...

Also, does he will can get visa and invite his family after my baby will be born, bec my baby will be british ? :( so I really dont want that me or my baby had been just used for visa ;(

thank u and please do not judge me

Update:

I made my decision, that I will be better without him...

But I think I cannot make a lot of difference If I will have baby from him, he can still get a visa to came to UK, or second option is just to change city and avoid to put his name on birth certificate... :(

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    Tell him to piss off back to pakistan and i hope you aren't thinking of sponging off the taxpayer because it's wrong for you and non muslim women to think the rest of us can foot the bill

  • 9 years ago

    If you truly LOVE him, you wouldn't be asking the general public here on yahoo, who gives no **** about your problem. [- sorry to judge you]

    Go and talk to him. Put things straight, love has no boundaries, negotiate and let him know your feelings.

  • 9 years ago

    Hi,

    Quintessentially the British border control will allow your partner inside the country if he can prove that he is eligible for immigration (regardless) of marriage to another woman. His application will be merited on the grounds of a temporary visa if he meets the criteria as a mature student, skilled and qualified worker and/or tourist - if he can validate his reasons with sufficient and legitimate documents and have enough savings.

    No emigration rules exist for those who are proved eligible for temporary status without legitimate documentation to prove otherwise. He can always be honest and tell the immigration authorities of his marriage, yet they cannot refuse his application if he rolls the die his way and tells them that he is moving here to support his family back home. They can refuse his application if he tells them that he is involved in a relationship with someone else in the UK and intends to support both his wife and you.

    Few people are honest when they apply for immigration and those that do come here, are either without a genuine skill or are honest about their reasons. Immigration control has become much tighter in recent years, yet it still has some way to go to stop people coming through who are truly wanting to contribute to the british economy.

    It appears to me that you have allowed this man to gain your trust without knowing what you are really getting yourself into. Your own immigration status could alter as a direct result, so however hard this may be for you, I would not pursue anything more with him when he has already got a wife and children in his own country. You may love him, but if his intentions were honourable, he would divorce his wife and come here for the right reasons and not the wrong ones.

  • 9 years ago

    So this Muslim guy got you pregnant and wants to USE you and your baby for his benefit in order to live in the UK, then bring his other wife and kids? Do you not know this guy is tricking you. I bet he is not divorced. He may be lieing. You being pregnant, are the way for him to leave Pakistan. I do not believe he loves you. I believe he has convinced you he does love you because you will believe him.

    "Divorce is the most hateful thing to Allah, but it is allowed only in the extreme case of absolute necessity. All the husband has to do is tell the wife 'I divorce you.' Apparently there is no paperwork or proof except no woman challenges the husbands will to divorce."

    Muslims must protect their family life and must avoid divorce as much as possible. If you are not Muslim, I pity you. Research how many Muslim men take their children away from the non-Muslim mother and go back to their homeland. If you are Muslim, you are only valuable to him if you spend the rest of your life obeying everything he demands. UK won't be able to help you. He is not to be trusted.

    I seriously doubt the UK is stupid enough to allow his Pakistan kids without his 1st wife. Because in Christian based nations, men are NOT superior.

    If you are young, you will be placing yourself in an unhappy situation for the rest of your life. Read about Sharia law. In Iran, husbands toss acid in their wives faces to control them. Sharia law allows Honor Killings. You must beware of the dangers.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    another thick tart

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