Am i wrong for ditching my friend?

Ok it was wrong to ditch her, yet i understand your situation. Everyone is being rude themselves by judging you. There are some situations where you just dont know what to do but that. Mabey you should just talk to her about how you feel and ask how she feels. You can just say this "Ok i love you to bits girl, but the way you have been acting is kinda hurting my feelings. And i was just wondering if you would forgive me for ditching you. I know i was wrong and i feel awful about it, but i didnt know what else to do. Mabey we can both change and be better to each other." Just try to upstraight with her. Let her know your side of the story and let her tell you hers. Friends always have fights. Mine with one of my friends didnt end till like 2 or 3 weeks later! but we are still friends. And for all the other people who say your heartless and such dont know what your feeling so they need to shut there mouths. Good luck! :3 <3

A true friend would NOT badmouth them behind their backs. A true friend would be honest but respectful when they had a problem with them.

She is not the one who stopped you from dancing with others at that party. It is not your responsibility to make her happy. You can be her true friend and apologize for ditching her. It is sad that you let what your other "friends" say affect how you treat Yaminah. It really doesn't matter if she only wanted to dance with guys who were not white.

Why do you have to pick on what you consider her flaws? Her jacket, her hair? That is so petty and immature. Why not start complimenting her on her good qualities instead.

I think that ditching her at the mall was wrong. If you don't want to be friends with her anymore thats fine but can you imagine how she felt to call her mom to come pick her up because her"friend" ran off and ditched her? How would you feel? I bet she was so hurt and cried. Treat people the way you want to be treated.

Yeah, that was being a pretty bad friend by ditching her. It was really mean.

If your friend is just an annoying person and you don't want to hang out with her, slowly stop hanging out with her/texting her back/etc. You don't need to do something like that.

I think it's awful that you don't want to hang out with her because of her clothes or haircut. That's horrible. That's not your friend being an annoying/bad/mean person. That's just you worrying about your image and not wanting to be seen with her.

So yeah, that's being a bad friend in my opinion. Sorry.

I don't think your a bad friend. But maybe it was wrong to ditch your friend. Maybe just tell her how you feel in the nicest way possible. Sometimes it's hard to be friends with someone that no one likes but remember that person will most likely be there for you in the long run. Just say that you want to have fun with her but she needs to try and be more outgoing about things and see how it goes from there. Hope this helps :) just be the person everyone wants to be friends with :)

you sound really stuck up and like you were never her real friend in the first place.

who cares what she dresses like or whether or not she's pretty????!

it sounds to me like you're dragging her into situations she's not comfortable in (ie. an all boys party) and who gave you the right tot pick who she dances with?

to be brutally honest i think she's better of without you

you are a good friend but after all you're just a human, you cannot stand such a behaviour for such a long time but still i would advise you to support her .befriend her again if she promises to behave better this time. if not then continue what you're doing.

lets be honest here: yes. Also, stop being so judgmental, it just makes you look ugly.

yes you're a bad friend. you're also an annoying bitc h