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My ex has confessed that I'm a good man but doesn't want to be with me?

Do you think she is fighting her feelings... I mean we have so much history good and bad. But I'm trying to change my ways... Nevertheless she has said that I am a good man. Should I continue to show her that I'm good and try to work on my flaws. Ladies

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    Once you know the water is tainted it is just not the same.

    Learn from everything that happen. Fully change and then move on to a lady so you can start fresh. Do you believe it is normal to argue, if you do your not ready for a relationship.

    I like to just add because maybe I got your attention: To know if the fruits of this tree will be good you need to wait till you see/feel/takes/smell everything. A tree takes time to grow.

    If a tree gets cut it naturally will heal. If the tree gets cut down it must be fixed to live.

    As a Husband you are that mountain that no one has climb. As a husband you are the strong gate between outside and inside. NOTE:A husband can be a male or female, it must be decided so one may know to go to their post. If there is 2 leaders who do the people listen to? To be outside you are the leader as whatever you do it represents that whole inside. How is a Adviser inside and outside, it is too stressful, the load to too large to handle. It is better to have the adviser inside to focus so the advice can think clear and be happy. There is no trade money for happiness. How can a Adviser be a Leader and how can a Leader be a Adviser it is clearly 2 different roles. A husband leads but listens to it's trusted advisers and rewards them accordingly. A husband takes responsibility if the gate wasn't fortified well enough. Adviser is not like you, so you must give something that the adviser does want, to know you much pay attention. Make sure to pay attention to the apprentice as well. If you pay for your grain in full that you have now you have no one asking for money. The more you prepare the less you will have to handle later, and if you can't handle it later, you already have it prepared. Apprentice wasn't and will do the same thing you do. If you are perfect in everything at home who in your household can say a single thing. Make sure your advisers know they are valued. When talking to other generals you would trust your most trusted adviser more. You must finish talking to the other general even if your adviser interrupts but you can acknowledge them in some way. Adviser does listen but advisers likes to also see. By all this you remain as one.

    Apprentice that learns everything in 1 shop will have less things to remember and his time is more focused. So make sure your shop is where you want it to be. You can always buy a small shop to work, and only take on the apprentice when you are fully ready. When you buy something that your partner has the money at a different state you need to let your partner know to place that money aside so when your partner comes back the person you bought something from gets paid right away so that the person doesn't get offended.

    On another note before you invest into anything make sure you have done all your homework/research because that affects are recorded. Now it is better you don't invest, but you would miss out of some great luxuries. Now if you don't invest make sure your partners know about it.

    Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

    Love and the Good Life will come

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  • 9 years ago

    Dude, when she tells you that you're a good man but she don't want to be with you, that means she cares about you, but not "in love with you." She sees you more of a friend than as a lover. And that also means that she does not want to be in a relationship with you. It sucks, but you will have to keep p yourself out of the dumpster on this one and keep your head up.

    It could be worse. She could be leaving you for another man. That would hurt me more I think. At least you young you can bounce back from this. If you two had kids, then she would be leaving you, and having some other man raise your kids.

    She basically used you bud. Now she going to find a guy who she wants to settle down and nest with. You were not it. She used you. Find the right girl for you, forget her, and don't let her selfishness make you bitter.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    you are lucky to have an ex that admits you are a good men. that shows she respects what you did as her spouse. but not wanting to be with you means she has goals and aspirations that she might not be able to achieve while with you. she needs that one less distraction to get there. stand by and be her ex that may or may not be a friend.

  • 9 years ago

    It's as bad as saying you're sweet!

    You need to restore her respect for you.

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