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She is my weakness... We had 6 years of history and we share a 3 year old together. I moved back in the house 4 months ago and I'm still finding it hard to let her go! I'm obsessed over her and what we shared... And it's making me look pathetic in her eyes! I want to move on but I'm stuck.... I'm blinded by our past and our history and that fact that we have a child together. She was my first true love... But I'm losing myself once again because she is moving on and I'm still holding on and it's making me obsessed with her! This isn't like me and it's not a good look...someone I need advice

It doesn't make sense she and I are no longer together... So why is she still so mean to me? She is dating a new guy so why is she still angry with me? If she still is angry or stank to me that means there still an emotional attachment ascoiciate... It just doesn't make sense she has a new man why be mad with me if we arent together

I mean if she has a new man then why is she still acting stank with me I mean she had a new man and has moved on there shouldn't be any need to be rude sarcastic and short and punchy if that's the case righ?

I hate it because we were best friends and lovers! We were each others first loves and she decided to have my baby. We were planned to be married! But we had an on and off relationship for 5 1/2 years and it's been a year since we have been together... But we see each other everyday! Its not the same she treats me like a stranger, and I hate it because I still love her! She said that we have tried so many times and now she is trying to find someone else! I'm the father of her child and she treats me so distant and it hurts. Ladies why?

I was her first love and longest relationship. She decided to have my child but we are no longer together. We haven't been together for about a year but we interact everyday. I still love her.... But she distances herself from me and avoids me and is on a hunt for a man. Why does she treat me like a stranger when we have so much history together

Me and my ex girlfriend of 5 years have had a break up to make relationship. We have a child together and we live together but aren't together. However whenever we broke up she would always jump from me to a rebound, but then we would get back together eventually. It's been a year since we have officially have not been together and she had a 2 month relationship with a guy but they aren't together. Since she broke up with dude she has made it her mission to find a man.... By putting herself on several dating websites. Most recently she started this new website and just over the last 2 days she started talking to a new guy that lives out of state. I still love her because she is the mother of my child. She is very distant with me avoids me and very very very very very very very sarcastic and a bit punchy and mean to me. I'm saying if she is completely ove me then why all the sarcasm and why does she need to jump from man to man to man is she tha insecure

The woman said that my ex was my soulmate and that she is angry wit me! She said that her love is on mute.... But she still loves me...is this possible?

Should I be worried? I ain't honing to lie I did something stupid I was horny and my ex was coming out the shower and I took a picture of her and she saw me and at first she got mad! But this morning when i told her I was sorry she didn't seem like she was angr at me! I will never that again.... But should ibe worried that she was so cool the next day?

Ok I am going to start off by saying that I messed up and I regret everything on my behalf of our relationship and I want to fix things. I was with my daughters mother for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old together and we have had an on an off relationship after the baby was born. Long story short I couldn't handle the pressure she would put on me during our arguments and I would get fed up and leave. I would send money of support each week and I would see my daughter every week every time we would break up. We never cheated on each other just to clear the air. In march 2011 we broke up and since then I have been hurting big time. However in june that year until october she called me and wanted me to spend to see the baby at her house... When i was seeing my daughter on my terms in my house. So because i still love her I did exactly that and again i was seeing my daughters mother everyday once again. However i found out that in May she opened up a profile for a dating site. That started bothering me because I wanted to work on us... But she would always say that she wished our relationship could have worked but she got tired of the make ups and break ups. So after halloween I went to her house and confessed that I will always love her but that I understand that I can't force myself on her. She started crying also and we both confessed our love. However right our emotional confession she started dating another guy... But that

relationship only lasted 2 months. So I was living on my own and in February of 2012 my exes family asked me if I wanted to come back home I said yes so since February until now I have been living back in the house. I see my daughters mother everyday again and my daughter. I have been doing a lot of soul searching and I realize that "my daughters mother really really Loved me" but I messed it up every time I would walk out. I have noticed that things aren't the same between use. She resents me and is very sarcastic towards me a lot and short and punchy. But then there are times when she is kind and nice like before... And sometimes we flirt.... But only sometimes! She knows that I still love her... But she says she has given me to many chances. And so have found out that she is still on dating sites but have yet been on any dates... I know because we always are at home on the weekends and I drive her to work so I know... But she still has he profiles up. She has more then one profile on more then one sight... She must be really hurt and lonely. I feel like a big piece of "ISH" because I hurt he for not sticking around! I wad reading our old emails and text's and what seems to be repeating in the message is the " you need to stay, you promised you would not leave, and that better not be a runner." I'm tired of running and I'm tired of hurting her.... I know it takes 2 to tango but I feel I could have handled things differently. Her mother,father,sister and co- workers want us together but she is fed up... And I don't blame her. I could live on my own because have family of my own in the same city... But she has yet kicked me out! Also, she did mention to me that I was her best she had and that I'm a good person! But mean if she knows these things why won't she give me another chance? I'm trying to change and I'm tired of running! I am really re-evaluating our relationship and how I handle pressure so that do make the same mistake ever again. I am a fool and I'm hurting... I guess I deserve it. But is there anyway for that this relationship could be reconciled and fixed. I am trying to show her that I'm not leaving and that Im trying to change! Is it ever too late? I see her on her iPad and know that she is on the dating site and I feel at a lose. Other then working on me and trying to change and being good to her... What can be done? How can I get the mother of my child back. She is black I am puerto rican and our daughter is beautiful and it's killing me because we are so close but yet so far apart. I miss her, I love her and my family! Want to fix our relationship... What can be done? Ladies thank you and sorry for writing a novel! Thanks.

Mean why are we as people so stubborn and hard headed. I mean like my situation me and my ex are soul mates and distpite it all I know that we still have feelings for each other but it's like why do people lose the fight inside?

Do you think she is fighting her feelings... I mean we have so much history good and bad. But I'm trying to change my ways... Nevertheless she has said that I am a good man. Should I continue to show her that I'm good and try to work on my flaws. Ladies

Me and my daughters mother are no longer together but we live together. I was living on my own until her family wanted me to move back in with them. So I did and it's been very different between me and my ex. She is sarcastic at times mean and short and punchy. But then sometimes she is cool and we get along well. Like for instance last week I got a hair cut and I noticed that she was flirting with me and looking at me and talking to me like before but then the next day she starte to act different again. She is currently on two dating websites... And I overheard her tell her mother that she is looking for a man! As you can see I still love her very much and I want to fix our relationship. People are telling me two things 1 they say to act indifferent as though I don't care...and then on the other hand people are telling to show her that I'm willing to change and show her that I want to make it work! I don't know what to do! Her parents want use together... But they say it's up to her. I told her that I still love her a few weeks ago and she said that I need to move on! We are family and I love her what should I do? Ladies please I'm looking for good advice!

me and my ex of 6 years cant seem to work it out! We live together and co-parent... but she is moving on and so am I. Do we have to be freinds to co-parent? I mean we get along according to her... i mean she still gives me atittudes and is short and punchy and at times be very mean... but to her we get along. Im just asking do you have to be freinds to co-parent or just freindly with respect and bounbaries?

Me and my ex have been apart 1 year now. We have a child together and we currently live together. She is Short punchy sarcastic, and at time out right Rude and mean towards me. Not to say I don't deserve it... but it is what it is. We barley speak to eachother other then when it pertains to the baby. On suday I went to church and her sister and cousin wanted to take the baby to the pool. At first she didnt want to but her sister convinced her... when it was time to go I saw her and asked Oh you are going... and she quickly with a tone and temper was like YEAH I AM YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT!!! And while at the pool I was relaxing on the side and she made a comments again with a TON.... why did you even come! Thats was Sunday.... yesterday I came home from work and was a bit tired. I was on the ipad looking up something when she asked me to grab a pamper for the baby. I said ok give me a second! She then got up and put the pamper on the baby herself. While she was putting it on she made a comment to her mother and my daughter... "Pretty soon Mommies going to Find you a new Daddy"! Now are those signs of an indifferent person or are those signs of a woman who hates theres EX... if so if she hates me that means she still has feelings. I guess Im having a hard time understanding indifferent emotions rather then angry or resentful emotions. Ladies!

I guess the questions is clear... Why does my ex treat me so mean? Issue mean because she still has feelings? Idk it just doesn't make sense! She is sarcastic short punchy and gets angry with me why?

It has been kicking my butt for the last year... That I was the one mostly to blame in my relationship with my ex wife. No cheating or lack of love... Just couldnt handel the pressure and would walk out and break up when things got rough. Its funny how MEN realize the problem when the damage has been done... BUT I WANT CHANGE ONCE AND FOR ALL! I have tried to move on but I still LOVE my Wife! She resentful and bitter against me... How can I show her that I am trying to change and not walk out on her again! I dont want to tell her because she will think its lip service what can i do to show her! LADIES!

I am a foolish foolish man! My daughters mother and I have been together for 5 years and I have messed things up each time. All she wanted me to do was to stay!!!!! And what did I do when the tention got to high.... like a FOOL I left! Four times I left and I was foolish to think that I had nothing to do with it, and then the nerve of me to think that I could just expect her to just take me back with open arms... FOOLISHS... but she did, because she REALLY REALLY LOVED ME! So did I and still do... but I messed it up... and its to late! I know that she still has feelings for me, because we all live together. I have plenty of family that I could go live with right now... and SHE knows that and if she didn't have feelings for me then she would have told her Mother and Father to kick me out along time ago! We talk, but its not the same... because she resents me! At times she is sweet but most of the time she is short and punchy and sarcastic. She is currently talking with someone from an online dating site who lives in Australia when we both live in FLORIDA... and its driving me nuts because he is getting her attention (SOMONE SHE NEVER MET BEFORE)... and Im here 10 feet from her and yet nothing! Her sister says that I should start dating to make it seem as though I dont care and it doesnt bother me... but I can't do that... becasue im tired of running and playing games. I was reading our old text's and emails and the main topic that always came up was... "DON'T LEAVE ME... DADDY BETTER NOT BE A RUNNER... YOU PROMISED THAT YOU WOULD NEVER LEAVE BUT YOU HAVE!" I am a FOOL! Its funny how in life things make sense after the damage is done... IM A FOOL! WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT RIGHT? IS IT TO LATE TO MAKE IT RIGHT? WE never cheated on eachother... I was just a FOOL and WALKED.... IM SO ASHAMED AND HURT AT MYSELF! SOMEONE.... PLEASE UNDERSTAND MY PAIN!

My ex and I have a child together but we have been broken up for about a year. And now she is talking to someone she has never met before online. The guy lives in Australia and we live in west palm beach Florida. What can I do to get her to want me again. We live together and we get along fairly well... I mean at times she is mean sarcastic, short and punchy with me but then there are times when she is nice. What can I do so that she stops talking to this person she had never met before? I mean I still love her as you can see... But it bothers me that someone millions of miles away is getting her attention and I'm 5 feet from her and nothing.... What can I do? Thanks

What can you do when your spouse, ex, or fiance is acting indifferent? What are the signs of indifference? Is there any tenision when there is indifference or is it just emotionless? What can a man do to help with his indifferent parnter to make her desire him again?

Me and my ex were together for 5 years and we have a child together. We broke up last year and I moved out and was living on my own. This year my exes family asked me to move back in with them to live while I was living with my own family. They want me and there daughter to get back together, either way I moved back in with them. I see my ex everyday, but it's not like before. She resents me, she asks mean at times, she is sarcastic at times, and short and punch with me for no reason... But... We would go out together all as a family... Me, her our child and my exes family. Now lately I have noticed that she has completely been ignoring me and avoiding me completely. Before she would ask me to join her to got rub errands now she doesn't. This has been going on for the last week. I know that aren't together, but if she didn't care for me she would have told her family to kick me out and would not agreed to have me move in again. So what's her issue... And what can I do? As you can see I still love her! My exes sister said that she still loves, me and when I asked my exes sister how she knows she just told that she just knows! Ok then why is my ex treating me this way? Ladies?