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I live with my ex and she is now acting distant?
Me and my ex were together for 5 years and we have a child together. We broke up last year and I moved out and was living on my own. This year my exes family asked me to move back in with them to live while I was living with my own family. They want me and there daughter to get back together, either way I moved back in with them. I see my ex everyday, but it's not like before. She resents me, she asks mean at times, she is sarcastic at times, and short and punch with me for no reason... But... We would go out together all as a family... Me, her our child and my exes family. Now lately I have noticed that she has completely been ignoring me and avoiding me completely. Before she would ask me to join her to got rub errands now she doesn't. This has been going on for the last week. I know that aren't together, but if she didn't care for me she would have told her family to kick me out and would not agreed to have me move in again. So what's her issue... And what can I do? As you can see I still love her! My exes sister said that she still loves, me and when I asked my exes sister how she knows she just told that she just knows! Ok then why is my ex treating me this way? Ladies?
6 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
She's playing hard to get bro.
If she didn't want you there she could of just forced her faimly to not let u come back.
- 9 years ago
Tell her that if she continues to act this way and does not want to make the effort to put things right or at least improve relations between you, then you are moving out and making a life of your own. Or, you might try simply asking her what her preference is. Is it that you stay and if so why, and if it's that you leave, why. Then at least you have the answer you need to back up your actions when her family or anyone else might ask. The current situation is going to become unbearable for you anyway, so you need to know one way or the other and then follow through. It's no good staying under these circumstances. She sounds a little childish but she may recognise that she needs support in adjusting to you being back in her life and home. Counselling might be something you could suggest, and both of you should support each other and go together. See what she thinks of this. If it's negative, then at least you can say you offered. You might try to enlist the assitance from her family, so they too can encourage her to seek counselling. You would both benefit from talking to someone qualified and experienced.
Source(s): www.counsellingaustraliaonline.com This website assists people world wide. - 9 years ago
Women are crazy.. all of them... there are different levels of crazy but they (including me) are all nuts. She will want you when she thinks she cant have you.. but she will want you for all the wrong reasons. If ya'll arent together anymore then go on a date and see how she gets mad as a hornet.. she will tear down that girl like she is the queen. Its time to let her go man. Do whats right by your baby.. but that relationship is gone. unless you love the drama. then by all means.. Try showing interest in another woman and see her light up.
- 9 years ago
I think u should ask her what is going on because it sounds to me like she resents u being there. Maybe she feels her family is forcing her into it. Either way u should talk to her and see how she really feels.
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- 9 years ago
maybe somethings bothering her? ask her about it. or maybe shes just not used to seeing you everyday so give her some space! but communication is key in a relationship so your better off asking her whats wrong so you wont be getting any crazy ideas in your head! good luck :)
Source(s): im a girl lol - Anonymous9 years ago
maybe she is trying to forget about you, but if she is doing that is because she still has feeling for you, so be honest and talk to her!