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I'm obsessed with my babys mother and I need to let her go... Please help!?

She is my weakness... We had 6 years of history and we share a 3 year old together. I moved back in the house 4 months ago and I'm still finding it hard to let her go! I'm obsessed over her and what we shared... And it's making me look pathetic in her eyes! I want to move on but I'm stuck.... I'm blinded by our past and our history and that fact that we have a child together. She was my first true love... But I'm losing myself once again because she is moving on and I'm still holding on and it's making me obsessed with her! This isn't like me and it's not a good look...someone I need advice

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
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    Did you know that breaking up is #2 on the scale of "most stressful life events"? It can even lead to illness if you're not careful. You do sound stuck - if at all possible, please try to see a counsellor, they can help you find the tools to cope with the situation.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Why did you move back in?

    Ok don't make yourself look any more pathetic than you already are, take control of yourself, be dignified. Get outta that home, that's ridiculous. Save yourself and more importantly save yourself.

    Don't be a mug, go and create your happiness and empower your self worth

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Get a rebound! I don't mean use someone. I mean find someone who you can have NOT a serious relationship with but a good companionship with (conversations, date nights, etc). Having someone else usually helps you avoid dwelling on the past and helps you move forward faster. Best wishes to you!

  • 9 years ago

    Does she abuse you or what? Maybe you guys are meant to be together. If you stick together things will get better eventually.

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  • 9 years ago

    lol what a tool

    Source(s): your baby momma after sucking me
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