Do you think my Ex Girlfreind is either Resentful, Angry or Indifferent towards me?

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Me and my ex have been apart 1 year now. We have a child together and we currently live together. She is Short punchy sarcastic, and at time out right Rude and mean towards me. Not to say I don't deserve it... but it is what it is. We barley speak to eachother other then when it pertains to the baby. On suday I went to church and her sister and cousin wanted to take the baby to the pool. At first she didnt want to but her sister convinced her... when it was time to go I saw her and asked Oh you are going... and she quickly with a tone and temper was like YEAH I AM YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT!!! And while at the pool I was relaxing on the side and she made a comments again with a TON.... why did you even come! Thats was Sunday.... yesterday I came home from work and was a bit tired. I was on the ipad looking up something when she asked me to grab a pamper for the baby. I said ok give me a second! She then got up and put the pamper on the baby herself. While she was putting it on she made a comment to her mother and my daughter... "Pretty soon Mommies going to Find you a new Daddy"! Now are those signs of an indifferent person or are those signs of a woman who hates theres EX... if so if she hates me that means she still has feelings. I guess Im having a hard time understanding indifferent emotions rather then angry or resentful emotions. Ladies!

Update:

Um I was living on my own before... but HER MOTHER asked me to come back into the house to live with them. If she didnt want me there she would have not agreed to letting me back in the house and told her parents HELL NO he's not coming back into the HOUSE! And the reason who I care... its Obviouse I still LOVE HER!

mmm · Accepted Answer

she loves you too - she is reacting to your indifference

instead of saying - oh you're going - how about ' lets go as a family.'  let her know you're still interested in being a family-thats a start

? · Answer

I would say she is sick and tired of living with her ex, unable to move forward in life and move on from you. You're there constantly reminding her that she made a baby with a man who doesn't care about her anymore. But still, that's a terrible thing to say out loud and I know, even nearing 30, my mother would blast me for such a comment. But I bet she is stressed to the max most of the time. You guys need a new living arrangement, or maybe even try to work on your relationship? Maybe all isn't lost?

The question is, why do you care whether she still has feelings for you or not?

ron-D · Answer

Resentful and angry don't mean she still has feelings for you.  If she were indifferent, she would act as if you were invisible.  Why are you still living with her?  It's a tough situation, but she is way to unreasonable to try to be a civil adult.

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Do you think my Ex Girlfreind is either Resentful, Angry or Indifferent towards me?

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